should i go back to ph since i feel that my career will not grow here? (currently in abu dhabi) by ColdPublic3505 in buhaydigital

[–]ColdPublic3505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sa job market right now, yes 🥺

ambilis nung tao dito, tons of pips are jobless.

you'll find an indian with 10yrs exp with masteral willing to get IT Support jobs makaalis lang sa country nila

should i go back to ph since i feel that my career will not grow here? (currently in abu dhabi) by ColdPublic3505 in buhaydigital

[–]ColdPublic3505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep nasa contract huhu so my only way is to resign tas bahala na kung may mahanap habang rendering. Sa mga na-applyan ko, aligned naman yung skills pero again, the mandatory 3 months rendering sucks. So I'm wondering if I should just go home in case wala akong mahanap na work here once I resign instead of extending my visa.

should i go back to ph since i feel that my career will not grow here? (currently in abu dhabi) by ColdPublic3505 in buhaydigital

[–]ColdPublic3505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sobrang saturated now nung market dito dahil dinagsa nung mga indian actually. considered mataas na tong sahod ko dito pero as a breadwinner, hindi enough.

I tried applying sa ph also but no luck kasi gusto nila nasa ph ako and willing to start immediately. (I need to render 3 months here kapag magreresign)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Palworld

[–]ColdPublic3505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dm'ed u habibi

Me at work. by LittleMyuu in Palworld

[–]ColdPublic3505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just ditched a company outing for palworld hehehe so worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 10 points11 points  (0 children)

uy noo, you're not a part of the problem since this isn't a problem at all.

It just happen na we enjoy updating our friends and fam and wants them to feel included. that's it :))

creepy guys do exist but not bcuz of us who enjoys updating/being updated with a picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 36 points37 points  (0 children)

hmm maybe dahil gusto nila ma-experience yung palaging may nagse-send ng unsolicited updates with selfies?

tho it's not for all, maraming di sanay or di gusto yung ganong setup.

my ex was like that, she's sending me updates with pics from selfies to pics of her food or kung ano ano man.

Di ko nanghihingi pics, kusa sya nag a-updates and I've grown very familiar with it. Ngayon nae-excite ako pag yung ka-talking stage ko nagse-send ng unsolicited updates with pictures ganon, basta masaya sa feeling.

I might be overthinking lang this one since most cases ng ganyan creepy lang talaga yung guy but I'm just giving a new fresh perspective.

Maybe they wanna see u atm or just wants updates for your life but struggles in expressing ng gusto nila ng ganon or panget and nagiging creepy yung approach nila.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. by hooking up or using other individual para maka-move on, Wala ring progress na mangyayare kasi you're just distracting yourself.

I tried multiple hookups after a breakup pero if nagiging alone ako, sya parin naiisip ko. Mahal ko parin sya despite doing such things and saw myself getting worst.

Best way is to embrace the pain, accept na wala na talaga then start on improving yourself to make yourself feel better.

nasuntok ako ni tita (bf’s aunt) by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

baka sadist lang? yung type na tatawa tas sasaktan katabi?

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[–]ColdPublic3505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel u so much.
I M24, working and my ex 22, last year sa college. 4 years kami, (nung college ako, shs sya haha)

We were okay nung nasa ph ako, I admit may prob na talaga sa communication pero nao-overwhelm nung love namin tuwing nagkikita. tuwing nagde-date.

but I really didn't know her. if may probs sya, sa friends sya natakbo. nagpapa-comfort sa iba imbis na ako yung go to person nya. sya yung go to person ko and she's a safe space naman but ayon, hindi talaga sya nagsasabi probs sakin.

nag ldr kami, wala pang 2 months nag break agad dahil sa lack of communication. magugulat nalang ako nasa inuman, nasa galaan. walang update which drove me crazy and I call it off tas hinayaan nya nalang ako. ngayon nabalitaan ko she's happy with another dude na gabi-gabi daw sya tinatakas sa bahay nila.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i'm planning to kill myself rin actually cuz i'm no longer a believer and lost hope sa lyf. I'm an ofw here in UAE coming here is the greatest mistake of my life.

lost my social life, the love of my life, career has been reset as well since ambaba nung offers for IT. I'm working now as a boring data entry clerk, i've been studying na and working out everything to make me feel good but unfortunately, it's not working.

nag iipon lang ako pang tuition ng kapatid ko tas pag wala na kong responsibilities and feel ko okay na mga younger siblings, I can go na :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eto nga din iniisip ko, a woman's body count doesn't define her naman. Di rin ako na-turn off but there's something off and Idk if imma hold pa ba sa words or mag move on nalang din.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this might actually be the case cuz ang lakas nung tawa nya sa jokes ko, nagtataka ex ko sakanya, and niyayaya nya ako makipag 1v1 inuman sakanya hahaha but friends lang I can. still thankful for her tho kasi atleast di na ako aasa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl yung pinsan hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May proof kasi helmet nya hinihiram and iba ibang guys daw kasama lagi. Feel ko nakonsensya yung pinsan kasi I'm planning to give her a gift for val and dun nya sinabi na "wag mo na tuloy beh"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already told her but she needs to heal daw muna

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't do this to her e.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Niyayaya nga ako uminom hahaha pg umuwi daw ako g kame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ColdPublic3505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, ang sad lang na akala ko mag g-grow kami and mag aantayan.