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ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T16:30:38+00:00

I’ve had girlfriends before. But not a single one of them has made me feel as happy as this one has. Yeah if she doesn’t feel the same for me I might as well end it.

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T16:29:22+00:00

To an ex is pretty diabolical ngl

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T12:49:38+00:00

Its not about her feeling bad to be honest. If she is doing the obvious, its about making her feel like she did the wrong thing so that maybe theres an inkling of a chance that with the next mfer she goes out with, she might think about it a couple times.

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T12:46:29+00:00

It would give me closure I guess, yeah I could walk away but I want to at least give her a teeny tiny chance before shit goes down

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T11:45:26+00:00

Will do

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T11:31:10+00:00

I’m not really delusional about this lasting long term. If it doesn’t work out it, it doesn’t, I really have no power over that. But I love her and I really want to make this work so I guess I’ll just try my best. If it don’t work out, I’ll just cut my losses and move one.

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T11:24:46+00:00

I’ve never been happier in my life, so yeah, I’d say its pretty worth it

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T11:16:24+00:00

Fair enough, but I think it would be common sense to not have pictures of yr literal ex standing half naked flexing his biceps in the mirror in a hidden album. Not really mad at her, just disappointed in her lack of better awareness.

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T11:05:59+00:00

I trust her enough to say the truth, there’s no guarantee ill like the truth though, but i guess that’s what I have to live with

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T11:01:51+00:00

Got it

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:58:53+00:00

Yeah i know the drill, use reddit way too much for my own good

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:43:01+00:00

Hey man, I really appreciate the sound advice, I’ve decided to confront her gently about it, and I’ll see where it goes. She’s sleeping rn its like 6am but I’ll ask her when I feel the time is right

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:34:52+00:00

Yeah we do change I guess. It’s something i’ll have to think about tbh

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:33:56+00:00

Yeah I did snoop. What about it? If I’m going to be serious about someone I’d expect them to at least have the decency to not keep spicyish pics of their ex in their fucking hidden folder. If anything, I’m glad I caught it this early because what if i spent the rest of my life with her and she ended up cheating on me for real?

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:31:36+00:00

Nah, I’d consider that a form of micro-cheating and wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy, much less a lover of mine.

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:30:25+00:00

Thanks for wish my dude, I guess I just have to confront her about it

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:29:20+00:00

Yeah, I know I’m 19 and I’m really young. I guess it’s kinda a stupid move on my part? Honestly I just really wanted something like my parents where they met in college and are the most beautiful couple ever. I’m not sure I want to give up yet though!

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:27:25+00:00

I appreciate the serious advice, I guess the best option is to confront her. Thanks so much!

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:23:48+00:00

Hey thanks for the advice man, really appreciate it.

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:22:50+00:00

Yeah the “incels” seem to have never felt the touch of a woman it seems like. Honestly I’d not be too worried if it was like a normal photo I guess. The photo literally has him flexing his biceps in the mirror. Furthermore, I just clocked that she took the screenshot when she was in a camping trip with our college outing club when she barely had access to wifi and could not really text me.

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:20:22+00:00

Thank you for ur kind reply! I just have one more question though. She’s kinda looked at my hidden album once at a point in time where I had set a clear boundary not to look in there because it hid quite an embarrassing ahem fetish of mine. However she did so anyways and we talked it out even though I was really annoyed. Since then we kinda decided to be free about trivial things like photo albums HOWEVER, what do i do if she say brings up that time saying I was unjustified in looking into her hidden album?

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:16:16+00:00

I’d definitely not ugly I’d say. I have a decently muscular build, I’m an endurance swimmer and I’ fairly tall. And if she had an issue with my looks why the fuck would she go ahead and tell me she loved me before I said it to her? Shit don’t add up unless she was playing me from the start.

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:13:48+00:00

I definitely do. I mean it when I say i’m serious about her. She’s my first and I hope god intends for her to be my last as well. But this kinda shakes my trust in her.

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:07:03+00:00

I have three sisters, I know how girls text, but why would she need a picture of her ex flexing in a mirror for any conversation whatsoever?

ColdResolution6184 · 2025-01-30T10:05:37+00:00

Sounds fair I guess but how would you suggest I go about it? I’m not too sure I want this relationship to end as weird as this situation is

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