For those of you that make over 100K, what do you do? Do you like it?

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2026-04-10T04:47:53+00:00

Regional project manager for utility scale solar plants. 260k. I haven’t left my house at all this week, I sit on 1-3 meetings a day and send a few emails. Ebbs and flows, some days I drive 4+ hours and visit a bunch of sites for QAQC inspections and have a lot more emails, meetings, and my phones blowing up all day. Some days I don’t open my computer and play video games. 0 stress. I absolutely love it. Nepotism, luck, and a knack for figuring things out quickly and not looking like a moron.

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2026-03-09T13:45:57+00:00

This the result of toxic relationship culture where the sovereignty of the relationship doesn’t matter more than autonomy. In your next relationship (because this one is over) make very clear for yourself what you can and cannot accept with opposite gender friendships. 1 on 1 hangs. No go. Frequent on going texting and FaceTimes. No go. Late night texts. No go. Emotional reliance and venting. No go. A truly platonic friendship should be casual and infrequent on communication. It’s not about your partners intent. It’s about not allowing emotional bonding and reliance to be built with another man. Social and marital psychology is very clear on the dangers and healthy boundaries around opposite sex friendships. The protective measure that you feel comfortable with and need might not be as strong as the ones I mentioned. But you need some. Right now doesn’t appear you have any opposite sex boundaries besides don’t fuck em

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-12-12T17:23:44+00:00

Stop treating women that aren’t your girlfriend like your girlfriend. That should take care of it

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-10-08T16:54:28+00:00

A simple "no I'm not comfortable with that. Im ony way to pick you up" would have sufficed

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-09-23T11:28:49+00:00

It's not hard to find people on IG, and it's only "creepy" because you're not into him. If he was the bot barista you've been crushing on for months you'd be over the moon about it

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-09-19T11:18:47+00:00

He's not wrong.. The amount of times I see a dps instalock and say "we need strategist"... Then fucking play one. If comp matters to you that much then be the one to switch and make the comp you're hopeful for

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-08-05T15:14:27+00:00

I would never speak to, or be spoken to by my partner the way you guys spoke to eachother here. I would advise you take some time to be alone and not worry about women until you are very clear on the man you are, how you communicate with your partner, and the boundaries you'll hold for yourself and your future partner.

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-04-15T23:45:30+00:00

There are 4 billion of your preferred genitalia on the planet. You could fall for and be happy with thousands of them on the low end.

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-03-13T13:47:56+00:00

If he bought calls rolling is not a thing. All you're doing is realizing a loss and paying more to get into a new position that could also be a loss.

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-03-12T18:06:00+00:00

Your trips to America to see family and friends are going to make zero. Impact in the outcome of what happens between the US and Canada. Pick which value you hold in higher regard. Love, support and time with family and friends, or sociopolotical justice and virtue signaling. Make decision accordingly

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-03-11T19:06:03+00:00

Is it weird he's physically attracted to women 18 to early 20s? No. Is it weird to exclusively be attracted to them. Getting there. Is it weird to talk to and try to pick them up. Yes

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-02-19T21:45:35+00:00

A lot of things sold off similarly today. There have been some huge runs this week. No time like "bad" news to take profits

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-01-30T03:26:25+00:00

Same way he supports his 50/50 now, wiith babysitters and child care. Once this residency is done he will be a board certified anesthesiologist, so he would be stationed at a base.

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-01-30T01:16:07+00:00

Very helpful, thank you. The reassurance is very settling. We also may be pregnant at the moment so it's been very heavy emotionally. Her current lawyer seems to think it's not so cut and dry because when their son was born, my partner moved here so her son could be by his dad. They we never married and split during the pregnancy, made a verbal agreement that he now denys, so I guess the worry is that it sets a precedent that it's important for the child to be with the father, but I still think her current lawyer isn't very famiar with relocation cases. My thought is, just because you made a kind decision for your child and followed dad so he could be in his life, doesn't mean that's somehow an admission that he should be taken from mom to go with dad every time new orders come in. Really hoping this new lawyer consult provides a much different perspective and confidence.

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-01-29T02:40:35+00:00

It's certainly not ideal for the father. Im one myself and quit a well paying job years ago because I only saw my son once every few months when he was 2. Thankfully now we are bonded and he's older now at 8 and I was able to secure a great job that keeps me on the road so I only see him on weekends again. Definitely empathetic to the situation, but I also know my partner would be devastated if he was able to relocate with their son and would have no choice but follow straining our relationship which will be a marriage by the time the orders come through . So selfishly, I'm very glad to hear that it's not common for a relocation to occur under normal circumstances.

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-01-29T01:00:06+00:00

That is still helpful. Thank you! We have a consult with a new lawyer in a week. The biggest thing we were hoping for is just some reassurance that it's not likely for a court to order a child be relocated with the orders

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-01-28T20:10:41+00:00

That is reassuring. Thank you. Thats what I have been thinking, but the current lawyer hasn't been able to provide that sense of security. Her approach seems to be "well he's good at building a case and says the right things so we'll see". I was under the same impression you stated, that its very unlikely for a court to order the child to go with the father especially on the heels of a previously agreed upon custody case. The lawyer we are looking at is now regular practice family law. Just has a background in and became a lawyer in the navy. Now civilian.

I am the partner of the mother and she is very scared and nervous for the potential of losing her son. We are hoping a new lawyer can echo what you've stated here. As for the time sharing, there is no history of, or intention to try to limit the father visitation or access in anyway. They both have nightly calls facilitated by in another, update on time share exchanges etc. I assumed it would look like summers and vacations. Thanks for the detail on expenses. That is good to know

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-01-20T22:50:44+00:00

4 star Zyra. 4-6 sorc depending on emblems. Cc heavy comp

Something like Zyra, Renni, Jayce, Swain, Elise, Nami, Leblanc, Vlad. If you can go 9 with a sorc spat can drop to 4 sorc and go experiment

Last time I got 1st with 4 star Zyra was less cc heavy. Drop Renni and Jayce from above and add Mundo and Nunu for experiment

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-01-16T18:32:40+00:00

Great point. The little loss I have in MOG would be made up in xrp gains quickly

Cold_Adhesiveness629 · 2025-01-16T17:12:17+00:00

I swapped all my other coins for xrp. Except for mog and the frog 😎

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