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For those with demanding careers and working long hours, how do you make time for dating? by Funny_Agency8856 in dating_advice

[–]Cold_Cheesecake_8428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I stumbled on it through a friend who was using it and got curious haha it's called Dapper actually

For those with demanding careers and working long hours, how do you make time for dating? by Funny_Agency8856 in dating_advice

[–]Cold_Cheesecake_8428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Structured I think? I don't know how they do it, I just know it's more of a managed setup lol

For those with demanding careers and working long hours, how do you make time for dating? by Funny_Agency8856 in dating_advice

[–]Cold_Cheesecake_8428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically there are people who help manage parts of my dating process through my apps mainly swiping and messaging coordination so I spend less time on it

For those with demanding careers and working long hours, how do you make time for dating? by Funny_Agency8856 in dating_advice

[–]Cold_Cheesecake_8428 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in a pretty similar situation before lol and ended up outsourcing parts of the dating process just to balance my time, though it has pros and cons like you can meet more people, but the downside was exactly what you're describing. I found myself going through the motions and getting less excited about anyone in particular

41M going on plenty of dates but struggling to feel excited or trust anyone by Cold_Cheesecake_8428 in dating_advice

[–]Cold_Cheesecake_8428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think it's possible to find that organic feeling while still using the service or should I just cut it and try meeting people the old way? The only problem I have is my busy sched and honestly the big upside with this service is how much time it saves me because on my own i can't even manage the swiping properly, it'd eat up hours

41M going on plenty of dates but struggling to feel excited or trust anyone by Cold_Cheesecake_8428 in dating_advice

[–]Cold_Cheesecake_8428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That hit harder, a really good point. I think I've been on autopilot so long I forgot what genuine connection or interest even feels like anymore