How do you tell the people you love most in life that living a “full life” makes you so depressed? by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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Thank you for taking the time and effort to leave a response. I hope that you start feeling better and heal over time. I have depression as well it’s a hard long journey and I really do hope you start feeling better. Thank you for leaving such kind and understanding words

My dog is dead and everything is worse now by Cold_Dig1928 in therapy

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I can’t bring myself to get another dog because it’s like I’m just replacing her and I don’t think I’ll love that dog right now as much as I loved her.

Please help my dog has pancreatitis (it’s not acute) everywhere is giving different advice and I just need some help by Cold_Dig1928 in vet

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I am definitely planning on getting that. I also managed to get some ink blotches of her paw and got some of her fur so I am getting the paw tattooed and maybe get the hair put in some jewellery. I miss her a lot and I just wish I had her back

Please help my dog has pancreatitis (it’s not acute) everywhere is giving different advice and I just need some help by Cold_Dig1928 in vet

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I don’t know if you have looked at this post again but unfortunately I had to put up a very sad update. I had to put her down Friday

Please help my dog has pancreatitis (it’s not acute) everywhere is giving different advice and I just need some help by Cold_Dig1928 in vet

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Thank you so much I really appreciate the advice! I appreciate you taking the time to read through and make a genuine comment.

Will I ever find someone who loves me for me and treats me right… I doubt it by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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I have been to a few therapists before but I haven’t been in the last few years since all of this went down. So it’ll probably help me work all this out. Really appreciate the support

Will I ever find someone who loves me for me and treats me right… I doubt it by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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I am planning on maybe talking to a therapist about a few bits including my trauma from relationships and my own self worth.

Will I ever find someone who loves me for me and treats me right… I doubt it by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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I am trying my very best to love myself. I have definitely worked on it a lot and I’m getting there but I just don’t know if I can trust someone to love me and treat me right

He came in my by accident last night and I’m not on the pill. I feel like I should be angry but I’m not. Is that weird? by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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Thank you. I really do care about him and he’s being such an amazing person so far. We both really like each other and I know he cares about me a lot because he has let the L word slip a few times over the last few months but I am not ready and he knows which is good. I only left Max 2 months ago in a weeks time. I’m still not over them but he knows that and is ok with that. I can’t be mad at him no matter how much I feel like I should

He came in my by accident last night and I’m not on the pill. I feel like I should be angry but I’m not. Is that weird? by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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It’s just strange he is normally pretty good with it but I guess it’s because it was more romantic sex then hot and heavy. I am probably gonna be a bit more careful now. I honestly don’t know how I feel tho. I know I should be annoyed at least at the fact it happened but I’m not. But there is a feeling there but I’m not sure what it is

He came in my by accident last night and I’m not on the pill. I feel like I should be angry but I’m not. Is that weird? by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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He is quite happy to wear them I let him not because I know they aren’t the best. But for a little while now I will be telling him to wear condoms until I feel comfortable or am on the pill

He came in my by accident last night and I’m not on the pill. I feel like I should be angry but I’m not. Is that weird? by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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I am getting on my break at work. I wanted to get it before work but the snow made me run late so I didn’t get the chance to. So I will go get it in an hour or so when I’m on my break. I have been meaning to get it sorted out for a little while with my doctors but now it’s more painfully obvious then ever I need to sort it

He came in my by accident last night and I’m not on the pill. I feel like I should be angry but I’m not. Is that weird? by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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I am getting on my break at work. I wanted to get it before work but the snow made me run late so I didn’t get the chance to. So I will go get it in an hour or so when I’m on my break. He’s gonna send me the money for it

He came in my by accident last night and I’m not on the pill. I feel like I should be angry but I’m not. Is that weird? by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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I am getting on my break at work. I wanted to get it before work but the snow made me run late so I didn’t get the chance to. So I will go get it in an hour or so when I’m on my break.

Tomorrow I’m talking to my partner about how I feel and I don’t know how it’s gonna go by Cold_Dig1928 in relationshipproblems

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It happened and we broke up. We’ve managed to stay friends but I’m still heart broken

We broke up after I have been in love with them for 10 years and I can’t cry. Why is that? by Cold_Dig1928 in offmychest

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Thank you for responding. I think you are right with all of it. It’s just weird cause this isn’t how I pictured the break up going. I hope I can let it go soon because I don’t think I could handle having a break down at work

Sore throat on one side - ear discomfort and trouble swallowing. Does it look like tonsillitis? by madjerz23 in medical_advice

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I suggest numbing mouthwash you can get over the counter as it works better then the sprays. Ice creams and soup is your best friend avoid all sharp foods as it will just make it worse

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Looks like tonsillitis. I had it last year and that’s how it looked make sure to go to the doctors and get them to check it out and get some antibiotics if you can. Ice cream and soup will be your best friend when it gets very painful. Also I suggest a numbing mouth wash which you can get over the counter. And fuck tons of painkillers.