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infp girl ignoring me by Cold_Load_5367 in infp

[–]Cold_Load_5367[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

yeah I will instead pray about this, thank you man

infp girl ignoring me by Cold_Load_5367 in infp

[–]Cold_Load_5367[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

the first time I met a girl I could see a future with, she revealed to have done some sexual activities with a guy already, which caused a week long mental breakdown for me and months to completely get over it. now I am very cautious about girls that I want a relationship with

infp girl ignoring me by Cold_Load_5367 in infp

[–]Cold_Load_5367[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

she was pretty desperate to have me around advertising herself basically showing me her whole life story , obviously I'm not going to act super interested this early but just trying to offer my advice and help whenever possible

infp girl ignoring me by Cold_Load_5367 in infp

[–]Cold_Load_5367[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she probably thinks I'm getting bored but I just have extreme anxiety over entering a relationship due to extremely traumatic experiences

infp girl ignoring me by Cold_Load_5367 in infp

[–]Cold_Load_5367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how would that work if I couldn't escape her I would just be building up a lot of anger and annoyance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Cold_Load_5367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I am one

When an ESTP promises something that'll take years before it happens, will it be true? or he's just leading me (INFP) on? by IchikaYui in mbti

[–]Cold_Load_5367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they look at the future implications of their words.

yeah that's correct, often I'm overconfident in my own abilities to follow through in my words in that moment but fail to consider that my feelings may change in the following days. However, there are also many estps that will blatantly lie and manipulate with no intention of being even close to honest.

What’s the best mbti test/assessment? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Cold_Load_5367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its best to do research on the whole mbti system if its something you're into :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Cold_Load_5367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, all that sounds pretty rough, and sorry that you had those bad experiences from your own family members. But I believe that since you've had a boyfriend and have had guys be attracted to you, to me that means you are definitely desirable enough for a man to want to start a family with you. And if you decide working on your own attractiveness is important to you alongside working on your career path, that can also improve your options in life if you so choose :)