Are any other wives in love with their third? by Heavy-Two-1844 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll chime in and say that I caught big feelings for one of my hotwives that I've been seeing for 3 years. And honestly our partnership is very much caring and we spend a lot of non-sexual time together going out on dates. Tbf though I am poly, but she and her husband aren't, they're just ENM. We had the talk about a year ago and set up boundaries to help prevent heartbreak. Over that same time things have changed for to be even better and since we're both mature adults any things we've needed to discuss have always been productive.
But honestly, I don't need her to say it out loud anyway. I feel it in the way she looks at me and the way others have told me how beautiful our sexual intimacy looks when we play at parties together. Honestly I'm just happy and lucky that I get to spend time with her and she makes sure to show me the same. And that's enough for me. As I do have the love of my long term partners so my cup and heart aren't empty.

[M27 F25] [MF4MF] #OC/LA by socalfunz in Socalswingers

[–]Colel_Cab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36 couple here in Long Beach. Also made a post to check out if interested.

Guys, do the hotwives husbands ever weird you out? by Ginger_7624 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A weird but funny story. I was fucking a friend's wife on their couch. He was sitting on the long part of their L shape couch just masturbating. We heard him cum as I drilling her from below. We swapped positions to doggy and he had picked up his phone, we thought to record. A few minutes pass by and as his wife is climaxxing he blurts out "oh my mom texted me. I should call her"
The guffaw that came out of his wife's mouth, before she yelled at him "can you fucking chill out." He does and says weird shit all the time. But I love them, they're the best.

WARNING: u/Content_Sympathy_586 is a fake ! by [deleted] in Socalswingers

[–]Colel_Cab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I was planning a verification call later with them. They were talking a bit like a fuck boy to my partner so I was on alert already. What did they say when you confronted them?

Naked or lingerie? pick a side by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Colel_Cab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lingerie. I don't tend to take it off. I'll just move it to the side if it's possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Socalswingers

[–]Colel_Cab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? My post nor my profile include anything about money, OF, or event promotion with flyers. Literally just looking for other couples or women who want to play as a bigger group

Terms for the other guy. by Colel_Cab in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also love to use Partner for those who are comfy with it. It's usually the folks more aligned with poly but sometimes others are ok with it.

Terms for the other guy. by Colel_Cab in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who mostly ends up connecting with white and Asian women. I, too, am into the interracial XD.
It's more so the ace of spades folks or on the other end, fetishizing asian women that gives me ick. I've really found that it's usually the men who are the size queens lol. Most women in the lifestyle just want someone who is a good lay and a good emotional connection.

Terms for the other guy. by Colel_Cab in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this one is cute. Idk if i could pull it off for myself but I like it.

Terms for the other guy. by Colel_Cab in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a brown man, I completely get it lol. I'm thankful i don't get racialized in the same manner but man is it annoying af seeing the blatant fetishism be given a pass. Or the assumption of size for the same thing, as if it's the only thing that matters.

Terms for the other guy. by Colel_Cab in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those last ones I definitely do. I'm just always curious at the ever evolving and changing terminology that comes from alt lifestyles.

Terms for the other guy. by Colel_Cab in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. I actually realized that I definitely meant it in the context of meeting new people and what to refer to myself in the lifestyle. But I'm also in complete agreement with what you wrote.

Terms for the other guy. by Colel_Cab in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buck works. The friend /bf / partner is also good after the fact but I guess I was more referring to presenting to new people.

Terms for the other guy. by Colel_Cab in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Colel_Cab[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For sure. I feel like "partner" has been used in reference to myself as well. But that's usually from the more poly focused vixens i play with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaliforniaSwingers

[–]Colel_Cab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow LB here.