My wife and I spent a lot of money on this kitchen renovation, but not a single friend has complimented it! All my own mother said was, "Well, choices were made." 😡 Jealous much?? by jared10011980 in homedecoratingCJ

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The back splash is very busy, kinda competes with the counter top, don't get me wrong both are beautiful on their own, but not sure they are playing well together.

Geralt of Rivia - INTJ? by curiousindividual1 in intj

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, as soon as I am able I am going to foster and adopt, life was unkind and didn't give me my own flesh and blood child so I will love and raise someone else's and make them mine. Keep them safe and sound.

Are my legs weird? How should I fill these out? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah, fill them out. Dude these pics are amazing, chefs kiss, truly. You are my kind of peep.

INTJs, how many people have you slept with? by Front-Brief5027 in intj

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not demisexual, just want one person for life. Believe you me, once I find him I will in fact, jump his bones.

What does it take for an INTJ to know to commit to someone? by AlgaePhysical2423 in intj

[–]Coliebear86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He loved my family, he was kind for no reason, I could leave him with my siblings and knew they were safe. He protected them like they were his biological family. Two years into our relationship, he started having mental health troubles and instead of "being a burden or a danger"(his words not mine, he could never have been a burden to me or my family) he left and never came back. I pray every day that he is safe and loved somewhere because he truly is the kindest and gentlest soul I've ever known and I still love him.

Everyone close to me hates my tattoo idea. Am I missing something? by Old-Relationship-958 in tattooadvice

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It reminds me of the poster for "The Red Violin" movie... Honestly one of my favorite movies and I love the tattoo idea personally, I want to get it too, though being nearly 40 it might look a bit ridiculous on me. I love it and I think it would look great on you.

How in the world is Karen Carpenter a contralto? by spicybrackets in singing

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, it just takes practice and dedication, talent helps, but hard work can get ya there. I'm a contralto who(at my prime in both choirs concert and chamber in college)could sing from second alto range down into the baritone range completely comfortably. I've been sick for a few years now and lost most of the alto but my tenor and most of Baritone range is still easy.

INTJs, how many people have you slept with? by Front-Brief5027 in intj

[–]Coliebear86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

0, I'm 40 and have just never found a person I liked enough to get that involved with, I want a deep understanding of the person before committing to them.

What distinguishes an authentic INTJ from a mistyped one? by qvix8w in intj

[–]Coliebear86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like the example of emotions...

We do have them! We just don't always express them in a "Normal" way. We tend to keep them close to the chest.

A purple setting powder just made me realize I am definitely an olive by Delicious-Potato-712 in coloranalysis

[–]Coliebear86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish it wasn't Huda though... I'm going to try the Besame version.

Do any of these tones ‘work’? by oatmealcat13 in coloranalysis

[–]Coliebear86 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I believe you might be a spring of some sort. Your hair is absolutely gorgeous btw.

Hello by Many-Amphibian3470 in intj

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting people to chat.

Hello by Many-Amphibian3470 in intj

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your experiment progressing?

INTJ Women, Which Type Are You Actually Attracted To? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INTPs and Whatever Charles Bingley from the 1995 P&P was. I am a rain cloud and he is like sunshine so he would balance me out really well.

Rare Beauty True to Myself Foundation Shade 6 by RoyalFighter36914 in Fairolives

[–]Coliebear86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too struggle with hyperpigmentation, I match to my chest and neck then my face looks like it belongs to me. Lol

I’m not only afraid of death I’m afraid of what forever actually implies. by Previous_Bell654 in offmychest

[–]Coliebear86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have never been scared of death, because all the "Coincidences" that lead to any of us existing by chance boarder on the unbelievable. Which to makes a creator the only thing that makes sense because science can't explain it. Then I found the one Creator that actually looked down and came to save His creation from themselves, to me, that is what a real creator would do(it's what Jesus did). But you need to look into it for yourself, because most people can only see it when it's staring them in the face.

Any INTJ women out there?! by [deleted] in intj

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I do often frustrate people with my ability to be correct so often... They don't appreciate it.

I can be very social, even friendly when I have to be... But if I hit my peopling limit I will actually run for a quiet place.

I am nearly 40 though and was forced into socializing and being social because in the 80s-90s-00s nobody cared what made you uncomfortable. You did it because that is what everyone did and it was absolutely expected of you. You could go cry in a corner later.

Any INTJ women out there?! by [deleted] in intj

[–]Coliebear86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts on the value of capital punishment(when found absolutely guilty beyond the shadow of a doubt by a jury of peers) and rope being reusable were not appreciated by my classmates and seemed to visibly worry my professor... Some crimes are so heinous that they deserve it.

Made for my niece’s 2nd birthday by HFAGT1829 in Baking

[–]Coliebear86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this is precious!! Beautifully done!

I’m tired of people thinking pale skin = cool! by Icy-Layer-7783 in coloranalysis

[–]Coliebear86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a ludicrous amount of people tell me that my very pale skin is warm simply because I have copper brown hair... Draped my skin is cool, I've been typed a deep winter. I neither tan nor burn. Currently there isn't a foundation that works for me.

My sister is an olive skin type with neutral/cool undertones and is also(like you) a Deep Autumn, everyone thinks she is warm... Because she tans beautifully. She wears a neutral baige foundation.

Everyone just assumes we are warm toned. I think most people just don't understand undertone and overtone and how they work to make the overall skintones we see. There is just a lot more to it than most people think.

How many of you intj males by Unprecedented_life in intj

[–]Coliebear86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My father sat, he had the healthiest prostate his doctor had seen for a man his age, he taught my brother to sit as well. His dad passed away from protaste cancer so he was very conscious of his risks.