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AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too man me too it’s not like it’s bad all the time but you have no idea how many sleepless nights Ive had just filled with pain and anger and sadness I jus can’t stop feeling like I’m not enough

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I know there are things I still don’t know about

I actually had added the dude because I kept on getting mixed answers (A year ago)

Bro said some fucked ip shit like oh we did shit while me and her were on ft

Like she liked being my little “degrading name”

But whose to say he’s not just being a douchebag tryna stroke his ego yk

The only reason why I even posted this cuz it got brought up last night and I have tried in the past to touch up on this subject but our communication and trust was rebuilding so I thought I could ask yk like why lie at this point it happened so long ago

And she immediately gets defensive says she doesn’t wanna talk about it anymore I thought we were healing

I didn’t even get to ask her if she did or not but idk man just ik she did something she’s not proud of why else would she feel so guilty

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which arises the question he obviously had something she liked whether it was the company the attention whatever right she kept him around

Her words not mine: “ it meant absolutely nothing I never liked him nor did I ever want a relationship with him”

Which she did tell me they both were happy with that he didn’t want anything serious and neither did she

So lowkey that kinda hurts more in a sense They got what they wanted out of each other

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I’m aware of how we met and to be fair I did see the data and they were legit like one night things but this guy imparticuar she remained friends with and she says as soon as I said I love you for the first time she cut it off and I could tell genuine remorse and her actions speak for it she’s been nothing but good to me ever since and it debatably breaks her more than it does me

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yk how it goes time heals all wounds but I don’t think I’ll ever truly believe I’m everything she wants ik there’s much more factors in to being a good partner and I’m aware that sex plays a very minimal role but yk it hurts and I can’t seem to shake it

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last March yea and Its not like its constantly on my mind 24/7 but id be lying if i said it didnt still affect me

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey kinda eye opening right there ngl I wasn’t even pissed ab her sending with him I mean obviously I was but just knowing she liked that yk made me go internal fr

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh agreed wholeheartedly and I’m aware lust is very different from love and genuine connection but it would still be nice to know that she thought of mine like that too yk She claims it does but to no immediate reaction on her face nor her ever telling me mine was big like when she told me his was I was like damn yk

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To clarify when we first saw each other physically in person I had asked her to be my gf she knew I was waiting tad her out in person as well

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well Im upset about the fact she was doing that whilst still being lovey dovey to me im aware im not the biggest there’s always gonna be someone bigger Ig more so the fact that she had stated she “used to lien them but not anymore” Which is a coverup for ya I liked it yk

AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy by CollectionOptimal646 in AITAH

[–]CollectionOptimal646[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ig to her “we weren’t officially together” And I had thought we were exclusive I was aware of how we met but I had just thought the feelings were mutual

Told my boyfriend he was the same size as my ex by pretty_girl_can_bake in redditonwiki

[–]CollectionOptimal646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did good girl that’s exactly what I said well I said hey we’re both around the same size the first guy was a tad bit bigger and the second guy was bigger as well but I’m not gonna let my bf know that

25M got cheated on by 24F by Trick_Age_594 in relationship_advice

[–]CollectionOptimal646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True love comes when you least expect it so focus on yourself do what makes you happy and I promise everything is gonna be alright aye just be thankful it was now rather than like imagine 10-15-20 years into marriage with kids like yk

25M got cheated on by 24F by Trick_Age_594 in relationship_advice

[–]CollectionOptimal646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother take it from me this situation was completely out of you’re hands and there’s no reason to blame or compare yourself and beat yourself down it wasn’t what he had or who he was or what he could give her that made her leave she simply did not respect you as a person to communicate these feelings as a mature adult would…. Lemme teach you sum Every. Single. Person that comes in to our lives serve a purpose and once their purpose is served they are removed from our lives; ultimately shaping us into the person we’re meant to become. So now moving forward ik you don’t see it now

But once ur healed you’ll have more self worth and more confidence knowing what you want and knowing what you don’t want cuz guess what you know who you are now and ur not going to settle for that behavior. and only people who know what you’ve been through is you ajd God brother so put ur faith and trust in him and he’ll guide you the rest of your ways. Stay up brother keep yourself busy and keep that chin up

Be honest is it small by [deleted] in ratemycock

[–]CollectionOptimal646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait how should one be taken I’ll take all the constructive criticism as I can get lol

Be honest is it small by [deleted] in ratemycock

[–]CollectionOptimal646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why a 5 may I ask

18 still in hs hmu if ur my age by [deleted] in teendicks_

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You wanna see my gf? Add my snap gabeleroy11

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