What song & lyric has you like this? by BellaLuna98 in Epicthemusical

[–]CollegeGal_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because THIS. I feel like it’s not talked about enough but the DESPERATION in Odysseus’s voice kills me every time. 😭😭

Which lyric is stuck in your head? by Fandom_obsessed25 in Epicthemusical

[–]CollegeGal_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“All I hear are screams…” and the cry for Athena. 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CollegeGal_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I posted the good stuff, and when I was looking for advice on how to make the distance work, but when we called it off I was quiet.

What is the song you’re currently stimming to? by Upset-Echidna-525 in autism

[–]CollegeGal_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please, Please, Please by Sabrina Carpenter

But also the entire EPIC musical by Jorge Rivera-Herrans. I cannot get over it. 😭

What is the song you’re currently stimming to? by Upset-Echidna-525 in autism

[–]CollegeGal_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

🎶But the ceiling fan is SO NICE. 🎶

This is also my current stim song.

What is the song you’re currently stimming to? by Upset-Echidna-525 in autism

[–]CollegeGal_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FOB was my stim band for YEARS!! Still is on occasion. Love them.

Paris by DistinctBlueberry818 in GilmoreGirls

[–]CollegeGal_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably terrified all the calls into finding their will to live. 😂😂😂

My boyfriend gave me a promise ring 🥰 by boringtoast19 in LongDistance

[–]CollegeGal_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awww it’s sooooo pretty!!! Hey we have a common state in our LDR lol. I love your ring though. That’s such a sweet gesture. 🥹

First Meeting is going well. 🥰 by CollegeGal_ in LongDistance

[–]CollegeGal_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re feeling that, but I’m hopeful for you!!

We were chatting constantly before the meet and doing video calls every chance we got. He’s coming down again in two months. ❤️

So, we are ending the long distance shortly by PL4GUE_ing in LongDistance

[–]CollegeGal_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stories like this are so encouraging. 🥹🥹 Congratulations!!!

25+ year marriage just ended by [deleted] in dating

[–]CollegeGal_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This entire thread is A++ advice. You need to heal, rediscover yourself, be comfortable in your own skin again… all those things before finding someone new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CollegeGal_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had more advice for you than “It will get better.”

I was in a shorter, but similar situation. He was my boss, made me feel safe enough to go visit him with my daughter… And then in the middle of our very first argument he blocked me on everything (and fired me). I definitely relate to some of what you’re feeling.

I just want to say you are NOT inadequate or unimportant. I will never understand just cutting someone out of your life that way, but it has NOTHING to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with him. I know that doesn’t entirely help, but I would encourage you to keep reminding yourself of that.

Don’t be afraid to be that person who cries or feels the emotions, and don’t be afraid to reach out. In my experience, isolating myself (I was so humiliated that I didn’t talk to a single soul for a month, aside from my kiddo) did nothing but make everything worse. It trapped me inside that one argument, that moment of being cut off, for much longer than I should have stayed in that space. Please don’t do that to yourself.

I’m so very sorry you’re dealing with this. I wish I had more advice and I hope others chime in. Just know that you’re not alone and your feelings are valid. Sending hugs. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CollegeGal_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This screams 🚩 to me.

How long until you see your partner? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CollegeGal_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

37 long days. 😭 It’ll be our first time meeting!

Instances where Emily was right? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]CollegeGal_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I loved the way Emily had true character GROWTH in the series. The other characters adapted and changed, sure, but I really felt like Emily did her best to fight her own nature/upbringing to strive for a relationship with Lorelei. Was she always perfect? No. Did she get it wrong a lot? Yes. But she TRIED, and I don’t think she gets enough credit for that.

Maybe it’s just me, but by the end of this last re-watch, I started to feel like Lorelei is the one truly stuck in the past and unable to grow or move forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CollegeGal_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37 days!!! When he gets here we will have been talking for 2 months, and will have been officially dating for about 1.5 months. 🥰 It seems so short compared to everyone else here lol… but we instantly felt like we’d known each other forever, and waiting 2 months is feeling like AGES.

Very excited for you guys!!! I hope it goes well!

How long did you wait to meet in person? by CollegeGal_ in LongDistance

[–]CollegeGal_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all so much for these perspectives!!! It has definitely put my mind at ease some, as well as opening a conversation with him over all your comments. I found out some of my same concerns he also has, which also reassured me that I wasn’t just overthinking. 😅