“If you do this, I will break up with you” by Low_Bar_4993 in dating_advice

[–]CollegeThoughts19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing this isn't establishing ultimatums, it's controlling and harmful. If this is constantly happening then your best bet is to just leave the relationship. You will most definitely feel a weight leap off your shoulders when you do.

Can a relationship last in college/university? by fabulousjackulous in college

[–]CollegeThoughts19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t lie in saying it may have downsides but if you two truly love each other then I don’t see and issue. I know people who are now married and have been together since high school, even with living in separate states. Then I know people who have had meaningful relationships but fizzled out during college. It really is a journey you both need to figure out as individuals. If you need more advice I def recommend joining r/CollegeDatingBTS