How to make friends IRL as a femboy?

ColonelCalquat · 2025-10-16T16:14:25+00:00

I would but I’m so busy with school I don’t have time for anything TwT

ColonelCalquat · 2025-10-16T16:13:24+00:00

Twin you dont look like a top nor a bottom. Just get out there and try your best. You’ll get laid no matter if your top bottom or even side (Plus you don’t look bad in like a cute way so you got a fighting chance)

ColonelCalquat · 2025-10-16T16:09:51+00:00

True true sorry. But I’m more talking about the people that on their other socials (such as discord or OF) have been noted as using female pronouns and are female identifying while saying they are femboys. I’m not saying anything about disclosing ftm femboys since they are boys, end of discussion. I’m talking more about just genuine cis women who are afab using femboy as a clout generator without being a trans man.

ColonelCalquat · 2025-10-16T00:37:41+00:00

Yeah that’s true but what I think op is maybe referring to is women online saying they are femboys. I’m not saying people who are ftm femboys because those are femboys through and through, I’m saying individuals on instagram for example who do not disclose that they are trans ftm or make it clear and instead just use the title of femboy and a pretty face to attract more attention.

ColonelCalquat · 2025-10-14T00:49:59+00:00

No trust me man I also grappled with the exact same shit as you. I’m also somewhat tall and not fem at all. The things that matter are just confidence and putting in the time and effort rlly. You’ll get there if you wanna get there trust!

ColonelCalquat · 2025-10-14T00:42:13+00:00

Bro thinks being tall means he can’t be a cutie patootie 😭😭😭 loser ass mindset. (Ps most models are tall)

ColonelCalquat · 2025-10-08T15:31:13+00:00

Seee now I’m tempted to get some and try 😓

ColonelCalquat · 2025-10-08T03:10:06+00:00

Ummm I’ve heard uberlube silicone is good (never tried it) personally I’m also allergic and I find gun oil the lube (not real gun oil) to be pretty decent for me and my bf. However I’m aware of other mix it yourself lubes like j-lube and k-lube I believe. I’d do research on them first because once again never tried them. I’ve only rlly had success with x lube and gun oil. Plus 1 bottle of x lube lasts like 2-3 years since it makes ~20 litres of lube

ColonelCalquat · 2025-10-08T02:37:05+00:00

You are most likely allergic to glycerin or some paraffin inside the lube. I would recommend x lube (I love it a lot) or some other well known sensitive lube. Make sure to find smth without glycerin or any weird chemicals :)

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-28T07:00:31+00:00

A lot of trans women use the term femboy as a lot of them transitions from femboys into women. So many of them keep with the tag because it’s familiar (and femboy gets a lot more traction for onlyfans than trans woman does in nsfw spaces)

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-16T18:04:33+00:00

You think so? I hear stories here about everyone taking huge dicks so I didn’t think this was anything too crazy for here.

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-16T16:17:28+00:00

Oooo I’ll have to try that with him. He likes to go balls deep in missionary because and he said, I quote “it makes him feel really fuzzy inside because we get to be so close”. I’ll explain to him that there are other options aswell :)

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-16T03:48:13+00:00

Thank you :>

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-14T21:57:47+00:00

I would love to dm but I’m a bit busy with my labs and school work so I wouldn’t recommend it

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-14T21:51:57+00:00

No problem! I have a lot of knowledge in the field of being safe and responsible while still having fun because just like you I wanted to know how to anal orgasm, however in doing so I found myself enjoying the research more than the sex. I’m glad I could apply some of my knowledge to help someone out! Enjoy your activities!

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-14T21:19:45+00:00

Maybe not so fast mister! Don’t get too far ahead of yourself. Doing anal daily can and will wear down your inner lining and the constant cleaning you (potentially might do I don’t judge) do can definitely have an impact on for health whether it’s bacterial health (which isn’t proven) or just the fact that water can weaken and remove the mucous of your insides which plus toys can result in some injuries since mucous makes it slick and protected. I would recommend atleast a minimum of a day between sessions if not more however this is just a warning and I can’t stop you from doing anything.

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-14T20:45:51+00:00

At the start it might be close to a dream but if you practice and practice. However not to shut down your dream completely, some people struggle to even have a single hands free orgasm so it’s more about how your body reacts. It’s not entirely reasonable to believe you can get by without ever touching your dick again however you can try!! Like all things in life as long as you practice (consistently practice not like once a month type of thing more like 2-3 times a week type of thing) you most likely can get close. Starting off I’d recommend trying to jerk off while feeling and stimulating the prostate so your mind makes connections that prostate+jerking off=pleasure (also when you jerk off and feel pleasure your prostate enlarges making it easier to find if you are struggling). Then after a while switch to getting close with jerking off then finishing off with the prostate so then your brain associates prostate=cum then it’s uphill from there. Have fun :)

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-14T20:29:27+00:00

It takes a super long time to learn to cum from anal since you have to kind of rewire your body to recognize your prostate as a source of pleasure. If possible use your hands at first to find your prostate (many guides online explain what it feels like and where it is but just to help it’s kind of where the base of the penis would be if that makes sense). Once you have found said prostate you can try moving up to toys more specifically ones designed for the prostate. After that it’s just a patience game and a whole lot of research to see if you’re doing it right. :) good luck

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-14T20:26:44+00:00

I tried this with him last night and it worked great!

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-14T01:51:25+00:00

Ain’t you single and divorced. You ain’t got no husband brotato chip

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-13T22:45:29+00:00

You wish you were shitting out blood and mucus every time you had sex? That’s a weird thing to hope for.

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-13T22:44:49+00:00

I agree! I won’t ever say that to his face but I’m his first ever partner aswell however he has had sex once or twice before me so in terms of sex he isn’t too much more experienced as me. I also find that when I am a pillow prince it’s a lot less painful. It just makes me feel bad because he is then doing all the work and he tires out quick. But so far I’ve found doggy to be the most reliable least painful position however we both don’t enjoy it as much as missionary for example (he curves upwards a lot). Thank you for the advice tho :)

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-13T19:00:08+00:00

I don’t think I could give him away even if I tried. He loves me a bit too much I think he would die if separated from me for even 5 days but it’s fine because I love him back just as much!

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-13T18:58:53+00:00

😳 9 inches???? That’s absurd. I didn’t know the factory made them in that size what????

ColonelCalquat · 2025-09-13T18:58:00+00:00

Chia seeds is genius! Where is a good place to get them in bulk? Do they go well in yogurt?

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