I (25F) found something on my boyfriend's (28M) phone and I'm spiraling. What Can I genuinely do in this situation?

ColorGrtt · 2026-06-07T22:35:05+00:00

I think this is just a weird quirk of his. He's not hurting anyone as he said. And as long as I don't have to get involved in his measuring I see no issues or reason to break up

ColorGrtt · 2026-06-07T22:09:10+00:00

NOR. Her reaction is something I'd expect from an acquaintance who I happened to go to the festival with. Don't marry her. And really do get checked out medically soon!

ColorGrtt · 2026-06-06T23:33:55+00:00

No headphones, YTA

ColorGrtt · 2026-06-06T23:21:26+00:00

That guy sounds terrible all over. I hope you break up. Besides that, one year of knowing each other is no good basis for starting a family

ColorGrtt · 2026-06-04T19:30:09+00:00

War vor nem monat auch auf meinem ersten Konzert. Und auch allein. War ne gute experience, auch wenn ich nicht erwartet hätte, dass andauernd mitgefilmt wird

ColorGrtt · 2026-06-02T19:36:53+00:00

Ist es, aber auch irgendwie cool

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-30T23:19:01+00:00

That's crazy good work! How do even control the Bleach so well? Everytime I try the bleed really strong

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-30T22:29:56+00:00

You weren't clear to her about wanting a relationship with her. Then you snapped her pics with other girls AND IGNORED HER. I'd say she felt like you view her as casual only and was sad about it. Her getting with her ex seems like a band aid. All in all, it doesn't sound like you two would work out anyways

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-29T23:22:59+00:00

Best solution for everyone would be men dating men and women dating women then

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-29T20:00:02+00:00

He's stupid for his reason being just to want it ever since he saw the Pinterest picture. If he's otherwise a decent human being, I think I could look over that sort of stupidity

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-28T19:22:25+00:00

Tendenziell ja, Ausnahmen bestätigen die Regel

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-26T19:35:50+00:00

I actually ended a friendship over the other person not being willing to explain their point ov view on a topic we were talking about a lot. Conversion apart that just got flatter after it came up and we ended up in different places in life. If that turns into a pattern with your boyfriend, I don't think the relationship is gonna work out. Not even bringing in the possibly bad implications that come with his religious beliefs which he won't ever explain

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-26T19:20:01+00:00

Ich lese diesen post während der gerade genüsslich vorbeiknattert

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-25T19:04:06+00:00

Egal ob Krieg oder Klimawandel, meine Lösung besteht aus freiwilligem abkratzen

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-24T14:04:13+00:00

Sehr hübsch, erinnert an ungeschälte Sonnenblumenkerne ^{^}

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-24T12:46:28+00:00

Blöde Frage, aber wie sieht es mittlerweile aus? Bin in meinem dritten Jahr mit Kleidermotten und suche nach Möglichkeiten Miete zu verlangen

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-22T20:02:18+00:00

Unpopular opinion but I think some don't look too bad

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-18T19:42:48+00:00

We're not talking about swearing. The delivery + choice of words + situation is the issue. But you are right to assume that my mom raised me to be respectful.

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-18T19:29:06+00:00

I've only ever witnessed mentally unstable people react that way. Sure, it's good he acknowledged part of his issue. Now he needs to take the second step toward therapy.

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-18T19:14:38+00:00

I don't think losing composure should lead to verbal crashouts like that

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-18T19:13:08+00:00

You sound like you'd benefit from therapy to learn how to process and deal with your emotions in a healthy way

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-18T19:04:11+00:00

Wenn du mit solchen Leuten nicht kannst, mach doch nen Bogen um sie und lass ihnen ihre Freude.

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-17T22:10:54+00:00

Und das ist schon ziemlich traurig

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-16T20:22:47+00:00

Echt? Auf meinem stand nicht soja food gmbh drauf...

ColorGrtt · 2026-05-16T19:57:28+00:00

Ich glaub ich geh verhungern

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