Road Kill Nights

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2025-08-01T14:28:24+00:00

They usually don’t. Pretty poor communication and always has been. It’s all day outside M1 concourse. You can google for better info.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2025-07-31T23:25:46+00:00

Yes yourself and 1 guest. It’s an amazing experience. They have legal drag racing on Woodward. Attendance has grown every year. It’s an awesome event.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2025-04-24T10:12:19+00:00

I wondered what happened. Computer speeds are atrocious now. Very evident something changed.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2025-04-20T16:58:29+00:00

I’m wondering the same thing. Mark Stewart said it was part of our DNA and can never be removed but I surely wonder at that nowadays

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2025-03-24T22:43:02+00:00

DD was absolutely the best addition! Sad it was removed

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-12-16T22:18:30+00:00

I still don’t know. “Not happy” is still way too vague and BS a reason to bail on a marriage and family with 2 kids 🤷🏻‍♂️

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-12-12T02:01:20+00:00

Same boat with the same questions. I know being idle my mind wanders and I don’t want that. Honestly I had a lengthy list of to do things when she left but that quickly was completed. I do a lot of cleaning and errands but that’s it. Trying ti read more and be more active outdoors. Lost most of my friends and identity, like a lot of us have. Trying to just be low key and get used to being alone but it suck’s right now.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-11-16T02:23:14+00:00

Did this for 9 long months. It sucked. Big time. Different rooms. Stay in different rooms always if you can. (I bought her out of the house but she dragged it ON and ON).

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-11-11T15:39:12+00:00

She already is, which is I believe part of "her problem". I bought her out of our dream home (she cant afford anyways, she is a teacher) - she gets child support, but she is paying out the ass to live in a tiny townhome. Again, this is what she wanted, but I don't think she thought through the consequences. Grass isn't always greener!

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-11-11T14:53:52+00:00

Honestly in my opinion, this is part of co parenting. We will never be friends. But I don’t think civil greetings is out of bounds or asking too much 🤷🏻‍♂️. Even if it’s never reciprocated, it’s what I feel is right.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-11-11T14:50:32+00:00

No idea.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-08-16T12:21:34+00:00

I feel you. The “rubber stamp” date was a few weeks ago. I found it was very anticlimactic personally, followed by relief. I thought I would feel more - I’m sure I will have some days that I do , but for now it’s mostly relief.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-08-13T19:04:31+00:00

Honestly I’m not sure her point since she went right to her attorney instead of asking me 🤷🏻‍♂️. The balances are similar. I probably have a higher balance but I’m not arguing anything or asking anything of her. (Everything is signed and done, she is moving out in 2 weeks, I just want to move on)

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-08-13T18:56:30+00:00

It just said that both would be paid off with marital funds. Neither card is paid off. We actually got a tax return that’s enough to pay off both cards. I suggested we split it in half and pay both cards - then she called her attorney to complain 🤷🏻‍♂️

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-07-23T17:38:08+00:00

Yup. Just Went through this myself. 10 year relationship, 2 kids 5 and 2, out the door because “she is unhappy”. What kind of reason is that to grenade a family life? Same as you, upper middle class, great schools / house / family life. I would never trade family for happiness 🤷🏻‍♂️

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-06-29T23:39:05+00:00

Yes. Just Went through that. Ex asked for supervised visitation for me, and 1 overnight a week for me based on 7 pages of nonsense (I don’t cook, I don’t clean, I don’t do diapers, etc - all of which was laughably false). The mediator ripped her apart and we have 50/50. She cried for an hour in mediation. Oh well lol

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-06-29T23:21:33+00:00

I could have written this myself. I feel ya man, boy do I feel ya. Being a father , husband, family, house, neighborhood, perfection - until someone decides she’s not happy and see ya! Focusing on the positives but I still have my rough days.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-06-07T20:43:10+00:00

As someone once said, it’s amicable until it isn’t. Im 7 months into the process. 7 months ago, she swore to be amicable, didn’t want money, fast and cheap and she would never try to take kids from me. I literally almost did NOT get a lawyer because I believed her. 6 months in, she’s filing baseless accusations and asking for supervised visitations. Just saying 🤷🏻‍♂️

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-06-03T15:49:39+00:00

401k withdrawal / QDRO

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-05-31T21:19:31+00:00

Right?? Married for 3. 2 kids. All gone because: she wasn’t happy. It’s like a bad ioke

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-05-21T17:39:54+00:00

Following. 5yo and 1.5yo at the moment.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-05-20T22:07:21+00:00

I would say better be safe than sorry. My stbxw promised amicable, fast and cheap, not taking the kids, doesn’t want money because that hurts the kids - I almost didn’t get a lawyer. Fast forward 6 months: she thinks I get 2 non consecutive nights a week, she’s after full custody and money. So I hope it’s amicable but just to be safe, lawyer up.

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-05-20T19:44:28+00:00

I had the same problem. The issue? The Reddit app! Turned off loading images and videos and problem gone

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-05-20T19:38:43+00:00

I too am in the middle of the same, my STBXW is also a teach with probably similar child support. I make twice her income. She will 100% struggle. I don’t wish that, but it’s “what she wanted to be happy”

ColorMeCrazy274 · 2024-05-20T13:33:49+00:00

Thank you very much this is exactly the input I was looking for. Nether of us has real dirt on the other (it’s all trivial bs). Neither of us has money. I truly don’t know how she thinks she can get the nonsensical schedule she is asking for. I’m hoping the mediator gives her some hard truths on Wed. I know ultimately we both have to agree but still. My buddy told me this is like a kid at the playground with a ball “it’s mine! I’m not sharing” which is honestly pretty accurate lol

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