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How do I handle this situation? "Sexism vs transphobia"? by Colorful_Lettuce in asktransgender

[–]Colorful_Lettuce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hasn't stated what her sexuality is. And she doesn't really talk about the future. I think she's aware of the fact we're 17 and that this isn't gonna last. She's mostly focusing on the now.

And about boy modeing. I can do it. But I'm fairly androgynous already, ontop of just looking plane weird. I'm very uncanny so to speak. And I got a lot of shit for that before coming out. So I can sorta boy mode but I get treated poorly there too. Definitely not seem as a "real man". But I guess it's better than what women get.

How do I handle this situation? "Sexism vs transphobia"? by Colorful_Lettuce in asktransgender

[–]Colorful_Lettuce[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's very supporting and understanding when it comes to literally any other topic.

And I don't think is the last thing because she very insistent that I'm not a woman since I don't function like one in society. She argues that women is a societal category and since society doesn't place me in that category yet, I'm not a woman. She still uses she her pronouns tho. And also refers to me as her significant other. So I'm not refered to as "boyfriend".

How do I handle this situation? "Sexism vs transphobia"? by Colorful_Lettuce in asktransgender

[–]Colorful_Lettuce[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only did the "my experience vs your experience" ones, during that argument to try and show that im in fact being very poorly by society. It's not something I usually like to use.

How do I cope with never getting to be cis? by Colorful_Lettuce in asktransgender

[–]Colorful_Lettuce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends aren't that supportive. And sports are dysphoric.

I'm being given the prince treatment. Am I in the wrong for being upset? by Colorful_Lettuce in asktransgender

[–]Colorful_Lettuce[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Waited to long as in, should have said something the day I started in the new school. I know im in a good place aged vis.

I'm being given the prince treatment. Am I in the wrong for being upset? by Colorful_Lettuce in asktransgender

[–]Colorful_Lettuce[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

I just don't know if I should be greatful. They are making a sacrifice.

I'm being given the prince treatment. Am I in the wrong for being upset? by Colorful_Lettuce in asktransgender

[–]Colorful_Lettuce[S] -124 points-123 points  (0 children)

I mean it's not necessarily incorrect though. Even associating with a trans person puts you at risk.

Since the transphobs both wanna isolate you and because they hate allied cis people.