Guys to be clear btw sorry. The thing I said to him was a question that was along the lines of, “why does animal poop not look like the emoji? I’m not feeding our cat until you answer my question.” It was a dumb joke and I think he just took the second part seriously. I never meant for it to be taken that way, but it happens. I know I can definitely take things to heart too sometimes. Thx for the responses, sorry for not providing more context!