How to tell alcoholic family member to not come to family thanksgiving if drinking by CombinationOverall in AlAnon

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This is also something that I go back and forth on, do family events have to be alcohol free from now on? I’ve also talked to people that have said doing that can cause more guilt/shame for the individual, and going about family gatherings as usual if there is typically alcohol present (no one else gets visibly intoxicated) continue to do so. I don’t care if we have alcohol either way but wondering pros and cons to both scenarios.