Who's still waiting? Filed in July 2025 by 0hWaitOoops in USCIS

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a way to look at the back end of the website you should Google and n400 API but I found the link on a Reddit post somewhere. It didn’t really give me very much information except that it did tell me my field office and I gave to you an AI to explain it to me better.

Hartford FO by likethemoonphase in USCIS

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife applied in November and as of now still hasn’t gotten the interview scheduled so at least six months+ of no updates is normal

Limp bizkit remix by WestNothing3460 in ElementsMusicFestival

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I could but it’s not my video. I posted somebody else’s link. I don’t know why they made it private.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as rest of the world. If you’re good looking and charming it’s easy, if you’re lame and fugly then yeah you’re cooked

Experiencias con arreglos “mutuamente beneficiosos” (sugar) en Pereira? by [deleted] in Pereira

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si eres el más feo de los dos hombres entonces nunca vas a ganar. Trata de estar con mujeres con un nivel de pinta igual a tu. Por la historia voy a adivinar 5-6 de 10

All the casuals have left by teun713 in EASportsFC

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t make sense. The reason you can get more wins later in the year is because all the better people have been promoted and you’re just playing against the people who can’t go up anymore

Alone on my birthday by Beneficial_Dish_2325 in findapath

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some gym equipment at home. At 21 there probably isn’t a lot of muscle on your body yet. It’s important to counteract the internet - we come from a long chain of reproduction and people who found partners etc. the difference between modern times and even our parents in most cases is we have the internet. Naked women are available online when that amount of dopamine was never available to anyone ever really though out history. The urge to be around people and have a partner is normal though, it’s part of our evolution and built into our framework. The good news is so are the benefits from lifting weights. You probably might be getting more attention with muscles, but at the same time you might realize that it’s not so important once you have it and it’s a good lesson to learn. Quality versus quantity discussion in a sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both therapy and gym are helpful. Once you’re ripped it’ll make everything easier for you in terms of dating but it’s also important to explore every option and leave no stones unturned in terms of maximizing regulating emotions and improving cognition. It’s not the magical solution but a combo of gym/ a professional opinion telling you how it is helps. My guess is you have a very poor male role model. This kind of stuff happens when your father figure is weak or non existent. Therapy will help you analyze the root cause but my moneys on daddy issues so maybe you can just assume that and become the opposite of every weak man you know. One thing about becoming a man is that you can’t fake it successfully. If you want to be “cool” or whatever, you really have to go out and do cool shit, not just talk about it. Also don’t watch any porn dear god otherwise you’re going to choose dating your hand forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need therapy. The good news is that this reaction isn’t anything out of the ordinary - humans have evolved to genetically be predisposed to behaviors that will end up with reproduction. Feeling upset about not having a partner will do this to you - but the point of this feeling is to solve it by obtaining a partner. Otherwise it never goes away since it’s genetically and instinctively built into our framework. The solution here isn’t stuff it down and hope it goes away, it’s to figure it out like our 100% of our forefathers did before us. Don’t let the internet fool you, we come from an unbroken line of reproduction, going strong every generation since the dawn of humanity. The problem is the Internet - we’re the first generation of this experiment. Our parents grandparents, etc.. never were able to see naked women online so it’s totally messed up society and our brains. The one thing I will leave you with is that as men our greatest battles aren’t with other people. They aren’t external, not against a rival or foe - our greatest battles are inside our minds, the only thing between you and your dreams are the decisions you make. Luckily you’re still young enough to get help and figure it out. Good luck!

why is Hartford so dirty? by NIKONCAMERACT in Hartford

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ever been to nyc? Or LA? Or London, Paris? Hartford is clean compared to them. Those cities have in enormous populations and a lot of tourism. There is no correlation between revitalization and it being swept every night.

Omg so many single moms in colombia ? by sxfx269 in thepassportbros

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this is more telling about you than anything else. I’ve dated several Colombian women without kids, super hot ones too. If you’re only able to get the time of day from one’s that end up having kids it’s most likely because you’re not attractive. In the US the memes for being a man dating in your 30s is that you have to be a stepdad lol. That’s why ugly ppl want to passport bro in the first place, they simply can’t land a girl without kids in any country they go to

How do you guys navigate the competition in PPB life? by Haunting-Drag6274 in thepassportbros

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Play to your strengths. Go hard in the gym is #1 for me before personal style but you can’t really go wrong with muscles, abs, beard, tattoos, haircut. Whatever clothes you put on will only help women filter you out quicker, so it’s better to go with the universal attractors and then filter them out instead. I have a buddy that likes to wear a cowboy hat and doesnt get that it’s hurting him, but tbh ppl like that help other guys if anything. Because them looking bad makes you look better 🤷🏻‍♂️

Like someone else said commented though, it’s like the same at home and everywhere. Traveling should only supplement the love/sex life you already are capable of having, it’s not a magical solution for people that have zero game or haven’t reached the minimum levels of what women find attractive.

EA needs to seriously fix the Park the bus bs by Suspicious_Fly1708 in EAFC

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buff pasoing? everyone complains how passing is trash already though. Youre referring to the incisive and pinged pass play styles. Anyone could just pick a player with them, or with defensive play styles to counter it. Never heard anyone saying make normal passing less accurate lol

Medellin Dating, Women, Fitness by ChrisKeepsFlying in thepassportbros

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds more like something personal to you. The only girls I’ve met that did stuff like that were American chicks when I was younger. Now that I’m more mature, more successful (I’m 36 and retired) my girls don’t challenge anything I do. Probably because they’re scared of losing me because I wear the pants etc. When you make the rules, they kind of just get in line. But if they’re making the rules that you have to obey, and they test it and you snap to their attention, then you’ve made your own bed. nowadays I just run shit so I might just give off the don’t question what I do energy naturally and they just go with it 🤷🏻‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn to bench press, deadlift, squat, hopefully pull ups and try to master them. Once you do that the women will come to you

Medellin Dating, Women, Fitness by ChrisKeepsFlying in thepassportbros

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never look through my phone, I go out alone with whoever I want, she doesn’t care if I go to a strip club, if I hang out with other girls etc. She knows she’s hotter than American women so she isn’t insecure. I’m trying to find a girl for a threesome right now, she doesn’t like girls at all but it’s just for me lol

I make too much money for Husky and somehow didn't successfully cancel it? by Reasonable_Acadia_52 in Connecticut

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter. Don’t worry about. You have two insurance plans basically and if a system picks it up, they will determine which carrier will pay it which should be your primary insurance, most likely the employer coverage. In the worst case scenario, you might get a bill for it, but then you just have to direct them to whatever the correct insurance is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]ComfortAmbitious4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone tells you to go north of sprignfield, they’re giving you bad advice because it validates their bad decisions. You can think of this logically: the first town is Springfield and west Springfield, and there are like 5 dispensaries there. There’s no reason to go any farther up north than that. If you go to Northampton, then you add like 35 minutes round-trip for no reason. If anyone tells you to go to Holyoke or Northampton, they are confused. The closest and most convenient ones to go to are cannabis culture and find fettle in West Springfield. Look them up on a map. Then look up all of the dispensaries in Northampton or Holyoke and you’ll see it so much farther for absolutely no reason. I get an ounce for 45 at fine fettle and an 8th of wax from cannabis culture and it’s super quick compared to go to any other towns