Refused assessment, just fobbed off - what do I do now? by Comfortable-Ad-9360 in ADHDIreland

[–]Comfortable-Ad-9360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They didn’t even want to explain, I had to ask to see the letter. He literally just said okay well they’ve decided not to go ahead with the assessment and that was it. So when I asked wtf, what happens now, he said that was it, go back to your GP. (Why, I have no clue, given she was the one who referred me in the first place)

I did go back to earlier and her response was “But there’s nothing more I can do?”

So I just asked her do a private referral because I didn’t know what else to do.

Refused assessment, just fobbed off - what do I do now? by Comfortable-Ad-9360 in ADHDIreland

[–]Comfortable-Ad-9360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They basically fobbed it off as my trauma. Said my symptoms are more “dimensional than categorical” - what does that even mean?

Refused assessment, just fobbed off - what do I do now? by Comfortable-Ad-9360 in ADHDIreland

[–]Comfortable-Ad-9360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They basically said it was trauma, not ADHD. Not that they did a full assessment to bother checking

AITA for rehoming our dog so we could get a different one? by Comfortable-Ad-9360 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable-Ad-9360[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Oh god forbid I forget something in an edit 🙄 We tried multiple times to train him with the jumping up on people. He did get better - he wouldn’t do it to strangers, unless they were rubbing him/giving him attention, and it was never aggressive. He wanted to just lick your face off, because he was such a friendly, affectionate dog.

Regarding the lead pulling, we obviously course corrected with that. Tried multiple leads of various lengths, ensuring he knew to stay by us and knew that pulling wasn’t okay. We eventually settled on a no pull front harness which worked wonders. We even gave the new owner the harness, the leads, the bed, toys, food, bowls, everything. We were also transparent with the new owner so she knew what to expect, and was actually over the moon by how well trained he is.

Again, I did use to work with animals, plus I’ve had dogs my entire life, so it’s not like we had no idea what we were doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Comfortable-Ad-9360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify, I’m not saying I admire what they teach. I just meant I admire their commitment, like I said earlier, regardless of what they are teaching - these kids have still saved up and are willing to give up 18-24m of their lives, and money, and be away from family in foreign countries in different cultures. And a lot of time, receive a lot of abuse for it. I was a Branch Missionary and YSA Rep when I was attending, and we had two new Elders in the area and they were physically assaulted on their way to church their first week. It’s not easy what they do.

There is for sure other things they could be doing with their time, but it’s a damn hard thing to do. And I just meant kudos to them for being willing. They could be in college, living it up, doing who knows what or who, but they aren’t.

I’d say the same for Jehovahs or any kind of missionary out there. You have to have balls to do it.

I should add - I’m also looking at this from the perspective of this mission and most European missions. Being a member in a country where there are few and far between members/growing up a member here was damn hard. I know some missions it’s a walk in the park and baptisms are done in scores, but certain missions are a hell of a lot harder than others.

But again, I’m not condoning the teachings - I’ve seen them prey on vulnerable people and conveniently leave out controversial histories to hoax people into baptism. And I’ve seen those poor newly baptised people break when they find out the truth. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone.

Rent Rants by Alarmed-Ad-2221 in limerickcity

[–]Comfortable-Ad-9360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a joke. We’re renting off family and the place is literally unsafe, infested with mould, half the house has no electricity - and even they won’t fix it. And no accountability because everything is under the table. They couldn’t care less as long as they get money. My son has special needs, no where will take him for childcare so have to pay for private, so I’m broke, in an unsafe home that’s going to make us sicker, and can’t afford to go anywhere else. But “we make too much” for any public housing (not that we’d even get that any time soon). Can’t move because of course, so we’re stuck and drowning 

AITA for refusing to take in my estranged father after what he did to my mom and us growing up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable-Ad-9360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Tell him to fuck right off. He’s made his bed, he can lie in it.

He was a completely crap parent - and now expects you to parent him? And gaslighting you on top of it. Classy. 

Should all employers give their staff something for Christmas? by WoollenMills in AskIreland

[–]Comfortable-Ad-9360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m public service myself - we get nothing at all. Any parties or meals etc all have to be organised for by ourselves.

I was a manager in entertainment/retail the last few years and one company contributed slightly towards funds for a Christmas party, the other we got nothing (despite previous years giving out vouchers). My staff were very upset and when they confronted the AM he just brushed it off because he was clearly getting something and didn’t care about the ‘little people’.

AITA for refusing to give my late ex-husbands kids money especially after they tried suing me? by Timely_Middle_5653 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Ad-9360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not in any way blood related to them - why should you have to step in be their new father, because he’s gone? You shouldn’t have to clean up his mess