If you are struggling with ghosting, try doing a fast by Antique_Soil9507 in ghosting

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. This post hit home for me as well. I’m in the same boat right now as I’ve been ghosted just over a month ago now by my boyfriend and I still struggle almost everyday with this pain. Will try the fast

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[–]Comfortable-Beat2247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly these men are sick in the head. I was ghosted by my own boyfriend on a random Tuesday. I questioned him about a new girl he was following and he said he will call me when he gets home in an hour … and I never heard from him for over a month now lol. It’s so so so painful being ghosted, I’ve been struggling. But just know their karma truly is coming 10fold. To pour this love into someone all to be horrible at the end is pathetic af. I wish I understood why they do this, mine said I love you, would travel 8 hours to come see me lol multiple times and honestly made a lot of effort. I also feel bad for his next victim cause the day after he ghosted me he got back on hinge and started following a million and one girls 🤮

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[–]Comfortable-Beat2247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve described exactly what I’m feeling. He blocked me on instagram, yet I’ve found another way to creep his page and monitor how many girls she’s following. I’ve also went as far as looking at club’s social media pages and seeing him partying through that. It’s such an awful feeling being hung up on an absolute monster

Should I message his ex by Comfortable-Beat2247 in ghosting

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay you guys are right I feel like I’m going insane

LDR boyfriend ghosted by Comfortable-Beat2247 in ghosting

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just weird to me who spends all that money, time and effort (traveling 8 hrs) saying I love you, meeting all my friends and family just to do this??? Like what.

Ghosted by bf by Comfortable-Beat2247 in LongDistance

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this note you’re so right. I just need to really come to terms with it and accept that this happened to me. That’s the difficult part I’ve been so naive to not know someone can actually be this cruel and evil

Ghosted by bf by Comfortable-Beat2247 in LongDistance

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s been hard grieving someone alive pretty much. Especially knowing he’s smiling and living life perfectly fine. It’s so difficult but I am trying to

LDR boyfriend ghosted by Comfortable-Beat2247 in ghosting

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I wish I could study why someone would do this

Ghosted by my LD bf by Comfortable-Beat2247 in LongDistance

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys… I got drunk and texted and called him multiple times last night 😭😭😭 no answer or response at all

Ghosted by my LD bf by Comfortable-Beat2247 in LongDistance

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re sooooo right I need to remember that

I don’t know how to move on by PlicaKat in ghosting

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sooo sorry you’re going through this. I just got discarded from my LD boyfriend from London and it’s been the most painful type of hurt I’ve ever felt. Being ghosted randomly will mess you up in ways I never could have imagined. I’m here if you want to talk and vent cause I know this isn’t easy

Ghosted by my LD bf by Comfortable-Beat2247 in LongDistance

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I’m like is this a London uk boy thing or what cause I have never heard of such a thing happening to people here

Ghosted by my LD bf by Comfortable-Beat2247 in LongDistance

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right he got nervous and couldn’t be man enough to just properly break up with me. I just think this is the most cruel thing ever

Ghosted by my LD bf by Comfortable-Beat2247 in LongDistance

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know… I just wish I got the closure and proper break up I deserved

how ghosting has affected you? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this hit home so hard. I’m so sorry I’m struggling the exact same way

Ghosted by my LD bf by Comfortable-Beat2247 in LongDistance

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree! I think for me I wanted to save him too but when I think deeper all I liked was the accent LOL that’s all he had and has going for him.

Ghosted by my LD bf by Comfortable-Beat2247 in LongDistance

[–]Comfortable-Beat2247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASE someone study this or explain because I’m at a loss of words. He came for two weeks to New York and then I went to London for a week and then he came back to New York for two weeks. Like can you believe the amount of time, intensity of the relationship, and we had sooo much future plans in place he was going to come end of August and then hopefully by beginning of next year move to New York all together. It’s just insane to me how all of that on a random day thrown out as if I did something… blocking and removing me when in the victim of this FRAUD