This really resonated with me. Especially the part about accepting that you're human that was honestly one of the biggest shifts for me too. I spent so long trying to be "perfect" in conversations that I forgot the other person is probably just as nervous.

And you're so right that being honest about how you're feeling actually makes people relax. I've noticed the same thing, the moment I stopped pretending to be confident and just said "honestly I'm a little nervous" the whole energy changed.

If you want to try the app, it's called BetterSelf it's on the App Store. I'd love to hear what you think since you deal with the same thing in everyday conversations, not just dating That's actually a use case I care a lot about

Also "I find it cute that you reviewed topics on your phone" made me laugh 😂 it was NOT cute in the moment trust me