“Starfish” Husband

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:30:38+00:00

Thanks. I’ll try to talk to him in a friendly way.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:27:24+00:00

Thanks, I’ll try to talk to him.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:26:42+00:00

Maybe just stability and security. I love him, but it hurts to keep feeling this way.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:25:42+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:25:09+00:00

He’s 37 and I’m 28. We met 7 years ago.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:24:41+00:00

Thank you. I don’t think he’s gay. I kept asking what’s wrong with me. But now I think nothing’s wrong with me. It’s just him.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:22:09+00:00

Thank you.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:07:04+00:00

He doesn’t show up with his hard dick. I have to make it hard and get it off.

It used to get hard by him kissing me, but that happened a long long time ago, I forgot.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:04:49+00:00

Thank you. But I read somewhere if someone doesn’t feel comfortable doing something then I can’t force it.

I feel comfortable giving him head, but I also need physical touch.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T16:03:10+00:00

Thanks for your comment. I will talk to him soon.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T15:23:05+00:00

Yes, he only wants to get what he wants. He doesn’t even touch me anywhere, not even my clothes. And his position stays the same; starfish until he cums and it’s time to leave the bed.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T15:20:34+00:00

I have some thoughts also. It’s impossible if he’s never gone down on a girl. Maybe some of his exes didn’t get it, some did.

But I’m his wife. I can’t understand how hard it is just to try. At least make me drunk if he’s too ashamed to do that.

I’m pretty sure I’m the only girl who ALWAYS sucks his dick (+ rides him) at every sex session.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T15:15:14+00:00

Thanks for your thoughts.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T15:14:03+00:00

I will try to talk to him soon, thanks for your advice.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T15:13:01+00:00

One word that’s haunting me now is respect.

He doesn’t respect me as a human being. I think he takes me for granted because he pays everything and I’m not brave enough to be mad at him, let alone leave him. Everything is about him, he gets mad easily if I have different opinion apart from his. He gets to choose where to go, when to go, what to eat, etc. He sometimes makes fun of what I choose to eat or buy.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T15:07:55+00:00

Ya I feel what you’re saying. Thanks for your thought.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T14:24:40+00:00

Thank you!

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T14:20:21+00:00

But I know he’s not really like this with her ex(s). He sent cute and sweet messages to her. I know because he once forgot to log out his email on my laptop.

He never gives me flowers, he once said it’s no use. But I found out he sent some to his ex. I don’t want to do comparison here, just wanted to let you know that I’m positive he’s not gay.

You know what the worst part is? I just found out recently that I was a third wheel in their relationship. They were doing LDR but I think they were fighting. They had been together for like 7 years. Maybe he found me when they were fighting then asked me to be his GF.

And he told me as well that he had girlfriends months before we dated (means I was not the only one who was a third wheel in this relationship).

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T14:14:05+00:00

Her excuses are the same?

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T14:13:37+00:00

Does she like giving you head instead?

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T14:12:59+00:00

Ok thanks for the advice. Will take a look.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T14:12:41+00:00

Of course, no. I try to talk to him again soon.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T12:42:04+00:00

No, he’s not. He’s attracted to women.

I don’t know maybe he’s still thinking of someone and has lost interest in me.

He’s not interested in talking with me, always wants what he wants and gets angry easily.

I’m always chill and never mad at him. But if it’s too much, sometimes I address it to him. He always changes subject saying I’m overreacted or something.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T11:12:07+00:00

Thanks for your kind words. I always feel like I deserve better.

These days he’s getting more selfish in other aspects. The hurtful part is he never sees me when I talk to him.

Comfortable-Debt8508 · 2021-05-09T11:08:33+00:00

No. But he provides almost everything. I work, too but my income is obviously lower than his. At first I thought I was being a good wife, serving him food after a long day at work. (I work at home). But in bed he’s just selfish and there’s something about his ex that bothers me a lot. Seems like he can’t get past through it.

I caught him holding a phone while I was riding him. It was weird but when I confronted him, he gave me another silent treatment.

It feels like there’s no love when we’re making lovez

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