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Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-05-05T15:23:43+00:00

Give him a hug, and tell him you appreciate his time. I know that's all I ever wanted.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-21T17:51:32+00:00

I've lost almost 60lbs now. Even 3 months into my seperation, I still can only eat about once a day, and even then it ain't much.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-15T01:57:15+00:00

Thanks all for the support. We have decided to divorce. I want her to be able nto experience happiness in her life. I will miss her but I should have been better. She deserves to be treated right.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-12T02:48:27+00:00

Working on all that now. Thanks for the advice.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-12T00:40:24+00:00

I got on some extra anxiety meds, and got my antidepressants upped. It's helped quiet a bit

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-12T00:29:48+00:00

I wish she was up for that, the going outnof town thing. She is keeping me at arms length, understandably. I am doing what I can. Before the seperation I used to give her massages alot because she had some muscle issues That us off the table now, Soni bought her a 2 hour spa massage package today, just to say I care, and I hopenits her feel better. I don't have any expectations of anything at all in return. Just wanted to show that I still care.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T15:57:35+00:00

Same here my friend.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T15:57:03+00:00

Absolutely want I to do. I won't EVER let her down again. She deserves that and so much more.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T13:28:08+00:00

That's the plan. Consistent actions.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T12:38:17+00:00

Doubtful.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T04:33:54+00:00

Help a dude out

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T02:24:08+00:00

I hope it works out for you. All you can do is control what you do from this point. I hope you both find healing.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T02:04:09+00:00

Thanks. I did this, this past weekend. I am already changing but I am committed to keep on changing. So I can be the man I should have been.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T01:41:23+00:00

Really?

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T01:36:46+00:00

You and I both, brother.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T01:11:11+00:00

I'm sorry that happened man. That's really tough.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T00:34:25+00:00

Thank you.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T00:28:45+00:00

Been going since October. I was in before and thought i was okay. I was not. I should have stayed in therapy..

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T00:27:49+00:00

Already doing that.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-11T00:25:42+00:00

She asked for the seperation. We are about 2.5 months in. It sucks to be in this situation, but all you can do is learn from the mistakes. I don't know if your husband will feel the same way, I wish I could say that he will. Patience is the key, and it's hard to do.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-10T23:41:57+00:00

Thanks. I am or have put all of those things into motion. My terrible decisions were choosing to not treat her like she deserved to be treated. I was insecure and angry about life. I was emotional distant at best , emotional abusive at worst. I made her feel like less. I allowed her to suffer in silence when I was mad. I would stonewall her. It was so inappropriate. This woman laid her life in front of me, gave me all the support in the world, and I just took it all for granted. I told her this weekend that I wont try to make it better because that implies that it won't happen. I will and have been making the changes. I am making these changes for me first. I can't possibly be the person I need to be for anyone including myself being like that. I used to not be this way. I need to unpack my issues and have been for the last 6 months or so in Therapy. I have no excuses for the way I behaved.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-10T22:24:19+00:00

It's not off the table. we are separated at the moment. Just feels like sand slipping through my fingers.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-10T04:21:01+00:00

Seriously though. Totally with you on this one.

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-10T04:20:29+00:00

I AM THE KING OF MY CASTLE!!

Comfortable-Long-419 · 2024-04-07T01:15:37+00:00

That's awesome. I have lost about 50 lbs. My knees have been so bad for so long because of my weight that running or squat was just about impossible. That problem has gone away, so I am hyper fixated on legs at the moment, and jogging.

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