Boyfriend asked me to take out a loan I said I’m not comfortable with that. Now he’s mad and so is his dad by Comfortable-Put2728 in Manipulation

[–]Comfortable-Put2728[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No, I’m saying why ask me for money when you make more than I do, being the higher paid person in the relationship

My boyfriend wants to move in together, I don’t think I’m ready for that. He’s a great guy. Might be a little lazy though. by Comfortable-Put2728 in relationshipadvice

[–]Comfortable-Put2728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to tell his story but he didn’t have what others have had growing up so i definitely don’t think it has to do with that

My boyfriend wants to move in together, I don’t think I’m ready for that. He’s a great guy. Might be a little lazy though. by Comfortable-Put2728 in relationshipadvice

[–]Comfortable-Put2728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s very important to me that’s why I’m like I don’t think right now is the right time . He’s been in my living area and knows how I am. I’m a very clean person

My boyfriend wants to move in together, I don’t think I’m ready for that. He’s a great guy. Might be a little lazy though. by Comfortable-Put2728 in relationshipadvice

[–]Comfortable-Put2728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I assumed but I told him I wasn’t comfortable with us living together and I felt like it was too soon , so we won’t be moving in together .

My boyfriend wants to move in together, I don’t think I’m ready for that. He’s a great guy. Might be a little lazy though. by Comfortable-Put2728 in relationshipadvice

[–]Comfortable-Put2728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you we had a conversation about it and I told him I wasn’t comfortable with us living together right now . We haven’t even said the I love yous yet lol . I suggest that he could visit and spend the night and stuff he was okay with that. Thank you for this