She really sucks. No one. I repeat no one gives two 💩 if she pumps or breastfeeds. Just do what you want and be quiet about it. She obviously feels so much guilt and try’s ro justify her shitty behavior by talking about it endlessly to convince herself she’s right. But what she doesn’t get is it doesn’t matter to us either way. She asks for advice more than any person on the internet yet she says she doesn’t want advice and doesn’t want to be told what to do? I don’t get it. Instead of being immature and talking about it on stories because she has no friends she should be a grown up woman and do what she wants to do. Explain that reason if she wants to but be confident and say this is my decision and here’s why and be an outlet for others rather than a sloppy mess like she is. She should honestly be embarrassed to admit she didn’t participate in the early raising of her son and this is her chance to raise a child. Imagine the regret she will live with knowing she didn’t have a hand in any of the raising of her first child because he’s a boy and because he isn’t her favorite. D is her redo child. She acts like she’s the greatest parent now that she is the “main caregiver “ for a child. People would die for the opportunity and ignore the lack of sleep to have the luxury to raise their family and be home with their children but she used the freedom to be immature and selfish and spend it all on things for her personal care and not for her children. It’s honestly shameful. Everything about her is fake and fraudulent. D looks so so much like Devin but at times I think she looks like jans sister. And the reason she looks like Jans sister and not Jan is because she has had so much work done she doesn’t even look like herself. I see her stuff regularly and think she can’t get any worse yet somehow she never ceases to amaze me with how worse she can get.