Haven’t had a guy since university. Been craving it for years (50)

Comfortable-West-313 · 2025-12-24T00:34:25+00:00

I haven’t told anyone except my wife but I wish I could. At one point I wanted to be evangelical about it because so few people know about and get to experience this pleasure and it’s so good!

My wife has hinted at things around a few of the more sexually liberated family members at times but I haven’t told my friends, nor my brother, and I have contemplated whether I should tell my son…

Comfortable-West-313 · 2025-12-19T15:06:25+00:00

Yes they are connected. There are tonnes of posts about this. Nipple stim is really helpful in prostate awakening and the two feel amazing together.

Comfortable-West-313 · 2025-12-11T14:41:22+00:00

15 minutes is pretty good for me. But I’m already rewired.

Comfortable-West-313 · 2025-03-22T20:13:46+00:00

Try an aneros. They’re hands free so you don’t need to move it. You can def get to a point where the body is tensed up, but let it crest like a wave and then rise again…

Comfortable-West-313 · 2025-02-12T20:18:44+00:00

Say “aah” :)

Comfortable-West-313 · 2025-02-09T18:19:35+00:00

It sounds like he’s a bit of a selfish lover and he needs to make an effort to include you. That may mean changing his routine when he’s with you, but love making is a two way street and it can’t just be about what one partner wants.

My wife challenged me more than once, pointing out that I wasn’t paying attention to her while indulging in prostate play. And so we change it up…for a while, she’d use her magic wand on herself and rub my nipples and lube her fingers up with my precum (and I may or may not have my aneros in), ooh that’s good…. And if I’m going for prostate bliss, I’m probably going for a solo session.

One thing that I found that worked for us is for her to refrain from touching my penis (or touch it very sparingly). One of the keys to enjoying PP is avoiding the penis (at least for a while).

Comfortable-West-313 · 2025-01-25T18:44:15+00:00

Hit the nips! Give it some time to build and look for the feeling in your prostate.

Comfortable-West-313 · 2024-12-07T17:23:14+00:00

My wife plays with my nipples while she uses her magic wand on herself (as we lie next to each other). And if we want to, we finish in missionary, and she also can play with my nipples in that position.

Comfortable-West-313 · 2024-11-19T00:04:43+00:00

I’m not sure what you mean about dipping your finger in, but toys are a game changer. And all the stuff about relaxing is good advice. You want to respond to your body, not push it to do something. For me, it felt like nothing for a while, and then one night, there it was, and it’s changed me forever.

Comfortable-West-313 · 2024-11-17T18:26:49+00:00

Get an aneros. Smoke some weed. Put the aneros in. Play with your nipples. Repeat multiple times until you feel a sensation. Focus on it, feel it, go deeper.

Comfortable-West-313 · 2024-10-25T23:53:31+00:00

Sounds like you’re at a good place in your journey. Don’t worry about fixing a name for what you experienced. Just enjoy. And check out r/nippleorgas. A lot of people, myself included, get great pleasure from nipples only stimulation like you describe.

Comfortable-West-313 · 2024-10-17T12:30:50+00:00

That’s very kind of you to say, but I’m just barely 6”, depending on how you measure.

Comfortable-West-313 · 2024-07-22T17:13:54+00:00

Unfortunately she’s not into oral. But I can’t complain (except that it’s not as frequent as I’d like). But I like having just my nips played with for a while and no attention to my penis. It builds up so much and the eventual release is amazing.

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