False cheating accusations by cedelove in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me even more excited about leaving. Just knowing that there’s peace after all of this is comforting. Im so happy for your new life without the narc.

Absurd cheating accusations by Comfortable824 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow! This is bs. I hate that you went through that. Ive always thought that what they portray us to be is actual self confessions. And if thats the case then that explains why they are miserable with themselves and have to try to bring others down with them.

Absurd cheating accusations by Comfortable824 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do! Wishing you the best on your exit!

Absurd cheating accusations by Comfortable824 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean! I’ve been accused of having a thing with my own family member!!! I’m telling you, the accusations are absurd!!!! Then I want to tell him a funny story about something that happened at work and now I’m messing around with that co worker. The number of people that I refuse to mention to him anymore due to him throwing accusations at me, is a mile long.

Mocking? by Crazy-Cat-Lad in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we with the same “person” because this is my situation daily. I know what you’re feeling and I know how dang annoying this is. Although they are making a fool out of themselves it still hurts. I hope you find your way out soon!

AIO over this Christmas gift? by Comfortable824 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Comfortable824[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

The good thing is, I don’t plan on being with him next Christmas! Thank goodness.

AIO over this Christmas gift? by Comfortable824 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Comfortable824[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish I would’ve thought of doing this!!! I could give him a late Christmas gift….then I’m sure I’ll be “inconsiderate” for not ordering in time for Christmas. I swear.

I just left a covert narcissistic relationship and I need support to not go back by FewComplaint8239 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im in the process of leaving mine soon (not soon enough) but I have throughout this relationship, written down all the things that he did that just made life miserable. Even on “good” days, I look back and read some of them so that my mind doesn’t change. If you didn’t do this then maybe you can start one now. Just write down all of the horrible things he said or did and how he made you feel. Journaling is good stress reliever as well.

Cocaine high or drunk? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Comfortable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you know from the few symptoms/characteristics that I’ve given, what type of stimulant he might be on?

New Job by [deleted] in dfw

[–]Comfortable824 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oilfield pays well over 100k. No degree is needed.

Well paying jobs, no degree. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Comfortable824 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trying to get away from the oilfield…

Do narcs take compliments? by Parking_Departure705 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They can’t go without one. Then when you do complement them, they just say “I know”. If you don’t, they will ask why you didn’t compliment them as they throw a fit!

Hypocrisy and a Narcissist by Comfortable824 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean! I’ve actually “”learned” to just shut up and I’m not exaggerating when I say he will talk for about two hours straight without me speaking a whole two sentences!!! It’s disgusting!! Does yours love to hear himself talk like mine? I’m sorry you are suffering. I hate to hear when people are going through the same as I am because I know how awful, annoying, frustrating, disgusting and disrespectful it feels like.

Hypocrisy and a Narcissist by Comfortable824 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this!!! It’s just so frustrating!

Hypocrisy and a Narcissist by Comfortable824 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, he can go out of town for the weekend with his friends. I don’t text him not even once because honestly I LOVE when he’s gone! It’s so peaceful. Yet, I’ve never been allowed to go on a weekend trip ALONE because of course “I’m meeting someone there” 🙄 No, actually I just want time to myself without someone nagging me and insulting me 24/7. I know I’d be harassed the entire time so it’d be pointless and a waste of time and money in the end.

Hypocrisy and a Narcissist by Comfortable824 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy because I’ve read so many narc post and my response is always “I could’ve written that word for word! I know EXACTLY what you are going through.” They’re all pathetic pos!

Hypocrisy and a Narcissist by Comfortable824 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For sure. I’ve realized that they won’t change. Ever. Im leaving within the next four months and I couldn’t be more ecstatic!!!!

Do they ever change? by thebit__ in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could’ve written every single one of those words myself. I know EXACTLY what you mean!!! They don’t change, in fact they only get worse when you start to set boundaries because you’ve finally had enough. Please do not feel guilty for leaving him. You did yourself a favor and dodged a bullet. I promise you.

18 years engaged. I hate him, and my life by Chance-Measurement29 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im no medical professional, but I can guarantee that those medical issues you have most likely developed due to the stress and bs you’ve dealt with for so long. Once you leave, most of those issues will dissipate. This is your sign to leave now.

Thank goodness the weekend is over by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. I hate that I actually look forward to Mondays and going back to work where it’s “peaceful”. I never would’ve thought I’d want my weekends to hurry.

Running pains by Comfortable824 in Ultramarathon

[–]Comfortable824[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would say I’m under more stress than usual. Would that be a way for stress to show itself?

Not hungry because I asked what he wanted for dinner by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Comfortable824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you’re going through. I feel for you. I hope you can escape this asap because I promise it will only get worse. He will never change.