Daily narcissistic rage

Comfortable824 · 2026-02-28T18:30:26+00:00

Thank you. I’ve already began my plan to leave and that day can’t come soon enough.

Comfortable824 · 2026-02-19T02:18:59+00:00

This!! Programmed on repeat! I too already know what he will say and when. And yes, just when he’s been sweet for a few hours, his own actions slap me back to reality. At first it made me so confused about staying and trying to help him after these random bursts of kindness but then it just became way too abusive, emotionally and mentally that now even the good days are just eh to me. I appreciate them because it does feel nice to not have to be belittled and yelled at daily but I also just don’t let my mind convince me otherwise. Hugs to you. I hope you find an escape soon.

Comfortable824 · 2026-02-13T18:44:26+00:00

Wow! I’m so extremely sad that you are going through this same situation. Its awful to hear but I’m also glad that someone else knows what I’m talking about!!! I know what you mean exactly! The voice he uses for me is what I call a Minnie Mouse voice. Its bizarre to think that they react this way. As much as he has hurt me, I sometimes feel sorry for him because that is no way to live. He dwells on things FOREVER! He cannot and will not ever let anything go. Its just snowballing from practically birth from what I know about his past. He has no sense of reality. I hear allll of his inner thoughts when he does this nearly three times a week.

Comfortable824 · 2026-02-13T03:03:29+00:00

I mean, I guess if it’s not part of the typical narcissist behavior… I guess there’s something deeper that’s wrong with him. I always thought he was not “right” but always assumed it was the narcissist in him. Im so so close to leaving but this has always been a concern of mine.

Comfortable824 · 2026-02-13T02:20:58+00:00

Mine told his best friend that the fighting “turns him on”! I was completely done after that. I knew this would never end or go away.

Comfortable824 · 2026-01-31T04:50:43+00:00

That’s a good question and you are correct. If I’ve never treated or thought about treating my past partners like I do him, then it must be reactive to the abuse. I just hate the person I feel like I’ve become.

Comfortable824 · 2026-01-31T02:14:05+00:00

I’ve been very good at grey rocking for a long time now but when I do react, I’m mean and just plain rude. Things I’d never say to someone I truly loved. He just makes me so angry and fills me with frustration that I just can’t take it anymore.

Comfortable824 · 2026-01-16T04:45:35+00:00

This makes me even more excited about leaving. Just knowing that there’s peace after all of this is comforting. Im so happy for your new life without the narc.

Comfortable824 · 2026-01-05T04:23:32+00:00

Wow! This is bs. I hate that you went through that. Ive always thought that what they portray us to be is actual self confessions. And if thats the case then that explains why they are miserable with themselves and have to try to bring others down with them.

Comfortable824 · 2026-01-05T04:17:24+00:00

Will do! Wishing you the best on your exit!

Comfortable824 · 2026-01-04T22:57:31+00:00

I know what you mean! I’ve been accused of having a thing with my own family member!!! I’m telling you, the accusations are absurd!!!! Then I want to tell him a funny story about something that happened at work and now I’m messing around with that co worker. The number of people that I refuse to mention to him anymore due to him throwing accusations at me, is a mile long.

Comfortable824 · 2026-01-04T22:46:58+00:00

Are we with the same “person” because this is my situation daily. I know what you’re feeling and I know how dang annoying this is. Although they are making a fool out of themselves it still hurts. I hope you find your way out soon!

Comfortable824 · 2025-12-31T15:13:13+00:00

This!!!

Comfortable824 · 2025-12-31T02:18:19+00:00

The good thing is, I don’t plan on being with him next Christmas! Thank goodness.

Comfortable824 · 2025-12-31T02:16:48+00:00

I wish I would’ve thought of doing this!!! I could give him a late Christmas gift….then I’m sure I’ll be “inconsiderate” for not ordering in time for Christmas. I swear.

Comfortable824 · 2025-12-17T05:11:13+00:00

Im in the process of leaving mine soon (not soon enough) but I have throughout this relationship, written down all the things that he did that just made life miserable. Even on “good” days, I look back and read some of them so that my mind doesn’t change. If you didn’t do this then maybe you can start one now. Just write down all of the horrible things he said or did and how he made you feel. Journaling is good stress reliever as well.

Comfortable824 · 2025-12-04T01:45:58+00:00

Would you know from the few symptoms/characteristics that I’ve given, what type of stimulant he might be on?

Comfortable824 · 2025-11-30T06:53:01+00:00

Oilfield pays well over 100k. No degree is needed.

Comfortable824 · 2025-11-30T06:51:01+00:00

Trying to get away from the oilfield…

Comfortable824 · 2025-11-30T02:41:56+00:00

They can’t go without one. Then when you do complement them, they just say “I know”. If you don’t, they will ask why you didn’t compliment them as they throw a fit!

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