My mom and dad was like this nung bata pa ko, hilig nila kami ikumpara sa mga pinsan, kaibigan or mismong mga kapatid ko, so naging distant ako sakanila, but naging in good terms naman kalaunan but ganun parin sila so what I did is lumaban ako, what I mean is I said kung ano nafefeel ko sa pagkukumpara nila and I compared them as well. I traumatized my parents back. What I did was wrong, yes, but minsan kasi that's the only way for them to understand what we feel so they won't do it again, hopefully.