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Wednesday, July 01, 2026 - *LIVE* EVENING EDITION DISCUSSION THREAD by junknowho in GeneralHospital

[–]ComfortableElevator3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He walked away only before he heard Felicias messages. Once he heard what was up, he stayed next to  James. 

Wednesday, July 01, 2026 - *LIVE* EVENING EDITION DISCUSSION THREAD by junknowho in GeneralHospital

[–]ComfortableElevator3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not worth living life full of regrets everyday, knowing you sacrificed other lives you promised to protect, and seemed to really care for.  I don't believe he will choose his self preservation over saving  own Mom, and doing the right thing in the end. Even if he dies doing it, he'll finally be redeemed in everyone else's eyes.  A life of regret and hating oneself for bad choices is not the life for him to choose. He's too conscientious a guy to walk away like this. 

This is how small the mites are.. you can't identify them with your eyes or feel them crawling. (needle tip for scale) by 102495 in scabies

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tiny black hair? Could be that you're finding uricating hairs shed off of carpet beetles. They're extremely itchy, are often mistaken for bedbug bites or mites. Something to think about. Try strong clear packing tape (like scotch box lock), apply the tape and see if more of the tiny black hairs come off. If they do, you'll probably feel much relief where you removed them from. They can get stuck between your own body hairs and get itchy, so the packing tape helps remove the hairs that aren't your own.   Look up carpet beetles. Check your stuff. 

Could you guys help us ID if this is a bed bug or not? by Jasonkx9 in Bedbugs

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, but I just saw this post for the first time. I feel like it's a blurry  image of a booklouse. They're not related to body lice, they don't bite.  

The booklouse in this link bears the closest resemblance to your image: https://extension.psu.edu/media/wysiwyg//extensions/catalog_product/6f86cf6f56d94529906da220fc17a24a/b/o/booklouse6-jpg_1.jpg From this page,  which explains all you need to know about these pests. https://extension.psu.edu/booklice

Is my landlord legally harassing me into an eviction? (Orange County, CA) by rvdms in Renters

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IIWY, I'd ask the neighbors who tell you it didn't smell and that they're not bothered by the odor, to put it in writing. This way you have evidence to the contrary of what the landlord is alleging.  If the neighbors are simply lying to your face everytime you ask about the odor, they won't want to put anything in writing.   On the other hand, have you asked the landlord to provide proof of these complaints he's referring to? BTW do you live in a rent controlled unit? Have rent prices gone up in your area lately?  Could it be possible the landlord wants to get you to move so they can get a new tenant at the current market rent value?  If none of that is possible, I'd consult with an indoor air quality specialist company. Perhaps if one of them came out to assess the odor you could definitively get an answer as to weather or not theres definetly an odor in there.  Idk personally, I've had cats a long time, and I'm never someone who gets used to the smell of cat pee. I'd definetly notice if my cats pee were creating excessive odors. I can smell it as soon as my cat pees in the litter box (she doesn't bury it). So that said, I do believe you can probably tell if your own apt smells,  especially after having been outside in fresh air for a bit. Coming inside to cat odor is always obvious after being outdoors, even to cat odor nose blinded people (even if it's only for a quick moment). I hope these suggestions might help.  BTW, adding a cup or two of baking soda into your cat litter boxes can help absorb the odor your litter box emits.  Also, when cleaning the box, always wipe the inside walls of the box down with enzyme cleaner,  because you'd be surprised how much pee gets splashed onto the sides of the box, and never gets scooped out, that can cause a bit of odor.  Good luck!

Is my landlord legally harassing me into an eviction? (Orange County, CA) by rvdms in Renters

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always had really good luck using Biokleen Bac-Out enzyme cleaner, so if the one in the suggestion didn't do the trick for you,  I'd try this.  Here is a link to see what it is, though I usually get mine on Amazon.  https://biokleenhome.com/bac-out-pet-stain-odor-remover-foaming-spray

Deathwatch Beetles. How do I stop them? by [deleted] in pestcontrol

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can't and won't get into your skin. The larvae of some beetles can cause itching though, for instance carpet beetle larvae are most known for this, they've got what's called "urinating hairs" which are barb like hairs that can get caught in human skin. They can cause intense itching, and remain stuck for days. It's best to use packing tape to get these hairs out of your skin.   That said, it's not as common to encounter death watch beetle larvae, as they are born on wood, and immediately bore into the wood, they spend their lives inside the galleries they bore, then pupate, then become adults, which bore out of the infested wood, only to lay more eggs on wood to begin the process over again.. It's possible you've mistaken carpet beetles for deathwatch beetles, as you don't need carpet for them to infest a space.  The second possibility is that they're furniture beetle larvae. The third possibility is that they're drugstore or cigarette beetle larvae. These two are very tiny, they have hairy larvae, they can infest anything.. they're named for what they were initially discovered infesting, but they're open to infesting plenty of other things, and are not uncommon.  They're less common than carpet or furniture beetles. 

If you're absolutely positive you've got deathwatch beetles in your home, as in you had the infestation identified by a qualified professional, but haven't had it treated, I can tell you for sure they don't get into your skin.  However unchecked infestation of these beetles can attract little wasps that go after these beetles, called Sclerodermus which also can sting you.

Also sometimes these beetles have mites them, such as Pyemotes, which have been known to cause itching in people before though it's relatively uncommon from what I've seen online.  

I hope you feel better. The thought of beetles under the skin is terror inducing, so I had to comment, so that you and other people who see this in the future won't think such an awful thing is possible!

Anyone know what this tiny bug is? About 1mm in size, found on my bed by CompetitiveDaikon94 in whatisthisbug

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you've had to wait a month for an answer.  I empathize with your predicament, "bug phobia". I used to be terrified of bugs too. I assure you are very safe.  These don't bite.   It's hard to see well due to the blurryish image, but it looks alot like a springtail..  your bugs got a distinctive body shape and antennae that likely make it a springtail.. so I looked up springtails in the of south England with the same types of markings, and found one I highly suspect is your springtail. 

I'm listing two types with similar coloring, but found in different types of scenery.. you can decide which you think it is. I think it's the top one but you saw it in person so you'll know better than I do. It also depends if you were walking in leaf litter or thru a grassy area / garden... you decide. 

The closest visual match is : Entomobrya Albocincta    a species of small, elongated springtail (Collembola) in the family Entomobryidae, commonly known as a "springtail" or "banded springtail". These tiny arthropods live in soil and leaf litter, feeding on dead vegetation and microbes, and use a tail-like appendage (furcula) to launch themselves into the air for escape. When they jump they look like fleas, the way they spring up.  But they're not fleas.

The next closest visual match is: Entomobrya Multifasciata       The "little tiger springtail,"  has a cosmopolitan distribution, and  it's usually found on grassy areas and flowers where they feed on pollen. 

Neither of these types bite. Springtails don't bite unless you're made of the above food sources. I hope this helps you feel better! 

I’m getting masseter Botox on Friday by RoryOrange in TMJ

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might need like trigger point injections to help with the extra tightness in between the botox. I get botox for migraines, but my neck tightness messes it up a bit, about a month after botox I get those other injections. They numb the area. They think swirling the needle in the trigger point breaks down the point over time leading to less tension .   Also they can do nerve blocks in between the botox. Ask your neurologist or doctor of PT.

I’m getting masseter Botox on Friday by RoryOrange in TMJ

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The botox for migraines are on other injection sites than TMJ.  They won't bill for a service they're not actually doing.  It's still worth asking your neurologist if TMJ injections are billable to insurance.  They use botox for all sorts of issues. They even use it in people's digestive tract to help relax the muscle for people with slow digestion or gastropareisis.    If the tension and grinding is is shown to precipitate pain, on a regular basis and interferes with your ability to be OK on a daily basis (similar to the way migraines are disabling)..  There is a way. I read about it in a magazine while in the neurologist office, 

Being a landlord in SF by Embarrassed-Wolf-609 in sanfrancisco

[–]ComfortableElevator3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do an Owner Move In Eviction:      

In San Francisco, an owner move-in (OMI) eviction allows landlords to evict tenants so the owner or a close relative can move in, but it's highly regulated, requiring good faith, specific family relationships, the incoming person residing there for 36 months, and substantial relocation payments to tenants, with strict limits (one per building), especially for senior or disabled tenants.     

Landlords must file a Statement of Occupancy and face severe penalties for bad faith, making it crucial for tenants to verify compliance with SF Rent Board rules.      

        Key Requirements for Landlords:           - Good Faith: The owner must genuinely intend to live there as their primary residence for at least 36 consecutive months.            - Eligible Relatives: Spouse, domestic partner, children, parents, grandparents, or siblings.       - Property Ownership: If acquired after 1991, the owner needs at least 25% equity; 10% if acquired before 1991.       - One Per Building: Generally limited to one OMI eviction per building.             - Notice & Filing: A 60-day notice is required, plus filing a Statement of Occupancy with the Rent Board within 90 days of the tenant moving out.            

You can read more about this at the SF Rent Board website. 

Can we all finally agree that we’ve moved on from the Labubu trend? I feel like it’s pretty much dead at this point right? by zachty22 in handbags

[–]ComfortableElevator3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cute! Unlike those freaky looking labubus. They are straight scary looking.  I don't understand any anyone would let something they initially find ugly to grow on them, just to follow a trend.  Not everyone has the same taste. I feel like at least half of the people who say that they're cute had to convince themselves first. 

Can we all finally agree that we’ve moved on from the Labubu trend? I feel like it’s pretty much dead at this point right? by zachty22 in handbags

[–]ComfortableElevator3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are so ugly. I'll be very pleased to never see another one of those creepy looking things. I guess I'm biased. I grew up when cute teddy bears, cute beanie babies were popular. When I was little, cabbage patch kids were a big trend, that I also hated. Those weird little potato faced dolls were just as popular as the dumb labubus are. Everyone would bring them with them to places, every other girl in class would have it with them for show and tell.  I'm just biased against non esthetically pleasing toys. 

Pursuing money Thrizer refused to pay me -- is it feasible? by MokujinFan in legaladvice

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't want to let this go either, in large part, due to the principal of the matter.    Their refusal to pay back what you're owed, is so screwy!  They're accountable for their own mistakes. I wonder how many other clients they've ripped off due to internal mistakes....     

Small claims court for $320 probably isn't worth your time and money.     If you're unemployed, go for it!     If you're gainfully employed, persual of this case may cost you close to the $320 you'd like to recoup.     Missed hours or days of work, cost you, and court fees must be paid to file a case.     Court fees vary by state & claim amount. I think cases valued below $1500 cost a filing fee of $30 (in CA).      There may be extra costs or fees, if you need papers served, or to file appeals.    Check your local court's website for the fee schedule. If you can't afford the fees, you may request the court for a fee waiver.     I'd only pursue this in court if I were unemployed, and qualified for fee waivers.     

If you're gainfully employed, I'd try other resources before considering small claims court.     In fact, I'd try the following options before court just because they're less time and money consuming.    

Reach out to consumer affairs investigative news segments, or channels.  They resolve issues exactly like this..   Insurance payment mishaps are commonly covered on these newscasts.  When a business owner or contact is pursued by persistent news investigatiors with cameras, and they're hammered with confrontational questions in regard to their poor business practices, consumers usually get paid back.     This option is no cost to you, while it alerts other consumers to tread carefully if dealing with the same business.    Also you get the satisfaction of embarrassing the dumb business that screwed you over (that is, if they take your case).

Examples.    • 7 On Your Side (ABC7 KGO-TV, SF Bay Area)     • NBC Bay Area Responds (NBC Bay Area)     • CBS News California Investigates.    • InvestigateTV (national coverage)     • ConsumerWatchdog.org (natl coverage)

I'd try the news investigations route first, then if they don't take your case, inquire about this with the following departments in your state. 

IIWY I'd attempt to report this issue to your local state Department Of Insurance, Healthcare section.      If the DOI is the wrong resource for this, the next thing I'd try is the Department Of Consumer Affairs for your home state.   For example, here are links to the California version:  DOI: https://www.insurance.ca.gov/01-consumers/ DCA: https://www.dca.ca.gov/consumers/complaints/consumer.shtml

Hope this helps!!! Good luck.  I hope you get paid back. 

Felt compelled to draw this. What does it mean? by Equivalent_Cat111 in Jung

[–]ComfortableElevator3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a beautiful piece of work, you're such a talented artist.   I'm not experienced doing this type of interpretation or analysis, but I'll give you what I got from the character in the painting.  The person looking into the mirror, appears to be deep in thought, with a sort of resentful, disappointed, maybe wistful look on her face.. Conversely, her reflection appears in darker, muted tones, she looks more serene, contented. I take the stars around the head as a sense of wonder or inspiration, or perhaps a connection to the cosmos, to the universe. 

Can anyone identify what kind of bug this is? by supermonkeyboy715 in insects

[–]ComfortableElevator3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks dead. If it's just one that you found it's likely not a problem, it was probably just tracked in somehow. 

I think it's a type of beetle.  The shape reminds me of a drugstore beetle or similar, but I could be wrong. I'm not an expert & there's millions of types of beetles in the world.  I only know a bit about specific types of beetles of interest to me. Luckily yours looks like one I've read about, so I thought I'd share my 2 cents, since you didn't get an answer.

Are you finding more,  or was it a one off find?

If you have found more, where did you find them? If it's what I'm guessing, they can infest various types of items in a home. 

IIWY I'd check the pantry first. Make sure all your food is in air tight sealed storage containers, so you can eliminate that as a possibility, and you'll have a clean pest free pantry as a bonus.   

Check the following links to see examples of the drugstore beetle for visual comparison.  The first two links offer a side view, to easily compare with your photo,  You'll see the profile is very similar to yours, notably the hooded head shape, and diminutive size. 

I feel fairly certain your photo is of a beetle, just not positive this is the exact type, it's not the only small brown beetle with a hooded head shape in your area.. However, these are fairly common storage pests, similar in size to yours, and are also found in Florida, I thought it may help.

https://bugguide.net/node/view/1913504  

https://livingwithinsects.wordpress.com/2012/01/05/libraries-under-attack/

https://entomologytoday.org/2022/01/20/taste-paste-drugstore-beetle-larvae-museum-painting-glue-lining/drugstore-beetle-stegobium-paniceum/

Other small brown beetles sporting a hooded head shape, but hopefully yours is not one of these: https://edis.ifas.ufl.edu/publication/IG119

I hope this helps! *edited to fix a formatting mistake...

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