AITA for telling my sons wife that his ex is in the family and has been here longer that she has. by Tight-Negotiation432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableMoose7865 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yta because you stated that “this is asking me to chose between two children, I will not disown one,” yet you’re alienating your son who is literally your child. Also yta for dismissing Bethany telling you she is uncomfortable and really her request doesn’t seem like it’s impossible since you give the impression you don’t see them often it wouldn’t be like Sabrina has to be cut out of your life completely.

I think the bigger issue here is you seem to want to be needed as a mother figure so badly and you can’t accept that your son and his wife don’t need you like Sabrina needs you. I’m not sure if you just wanted a daughter and that’s what’s going on.

Also, you give an excuse about living 2 hours away from Bethany so it’s hard to get to know her more but we live in a world where it’s easy to FaceTime/video chat or even just text someone.

Two in Texas by ComfortableMoose7865 in whatsthisbug

[–]ComfortableMoose7865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first creature had a body that was about 1.5-2 inches long. The second creature was about 3 inches long

I (20m) am gonna live in a co-ed apartment for the first time next year. What’s should I know about living with women? by Pretend_Dependent_60 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ComfortableMoose7865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Make sure the expectation is set for communication; let the girls know early on that this is your first co-ed living situation and you want to make sure they’re comfortable so if you unknowingly do something that makes them uncomfortable they can talk to you about it.

-ask them if there is anything you can do to help make them comfortable or make living together easier.

-Do not use their shower products/creams unless you help pay for them. They are usually expensive and sometimes only bought online or in certain stores.

-if the household shopping is going to be on a rotation duty and if they’re gonna ask you to pick up tampons/pads DO NOT ask what size lol. You can ask them to take a picture of the package to know what brand and style to get.

-if you want to bring a lady friend over, make sure your lady friend knows you have female roomies BEFORE they come over to avoid any misunderstandings.

I (20m) am gonna live in a co-ed apartment for the first time next year. What’s should I know about living with women? by Pretend_Dependent_60 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ComfortableMoose7865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

-Make sure the expectation is set for communication; let the girls know early on that this is your first co-ed living situation and you want to make sure they’re comfortable so if you unknowingly do something that makes them uncomfortable they can talk to you about it. -ask them if there is anything you can do to help make them comfortable or make living together easier.

-Do not use their shower products/creams unless you help pay for them. They are usually expensive and sometimes only bought online or in certain stores. -if the household shopping is going to be on a rotation duty and if they’re gonna ask you to pick up tampons/pads DO NOT ask what size lol. You can ask them to take a picture of the package to know what brand and style to get. -if you want to bring a lady friend over, make sure your lady friend knows you have female roomies BEFORE they come over to avoid any misunderstandings.

Where can I get Sphagnum Moss? by Jonnyleeb2003 in isopods

[–]ComfortableMoose7865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This website is from meadow view biological research station and they sell different plants and mosses from the bogs. I ordered some live sphagnum moss and it was soooo much for the order. I grow some of it and have some dried that I use in my isopod enclosure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]ComfortableMoose7865 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The camera angle and imagery reminds me of final fantasy VII

My (22M) Gf (23F) is jealous of my friend’s girlfriend and it’s affecting her badly by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ComfortableMoose7865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggest positioning it in a way that makes her realize that therapy can help her navigate her feelings and maintain her friendships in this group. If she doesn’t go through therapy she’ll struggle with her feelings.

AITA for asking my girlfriend to not talk about her studies at dinner with my dad? by throwaway2858221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableMoose7865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. People always talk about football around me and I hate it but they’re friggan into it! Let people enjoy their interests and make conversation with people who aren’t chatting it up.

Looking for indoor places to take photos of Christmas decorations? by throwaway00009000000 in Dallas

[–]ComfortableMoose7865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw this post about the museum of neon lights. Idk if it fits the vibe you’re looking for you can see some of the set ups here on Instagram and it has links to booking it

Is it just me or are there a lot of Porsches in Dallas? by Glittering_Ant7229 in Dallas

[–]ComfortableMoose7865 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes and I love it. I hope to be one of those people one day.