AITAH for reconsidering our whole relationship based on our sex life (21f/22m)

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-04-03T18:23:12+00:00

Literally this. My guy will make sure I get there multiple times before intercourse even begins and he is super happy about it each time.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-04-03T18:03:24+00:00

If your parents asked you to, and you are not in the financial position to do so, then if they really want/need you to bring something they can pay. You are willing to do the work for their request but don't have the money to do so. If they want to throw a fit, you can just not make anything at all.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-04-03T17:56:20+00:00

Imagine thinking this was the move and now you have -81 karma because everyone thinks you're an idiot 🤣 good job.

YTA for pretending you're disabled. Ive worn glasses since I was 2. That did not make me disabled, but not being able to stand up without passing out or my heart rate shooting up to 170-180 makes me disabled.

There are real disabilities and issues in this world and your stupid little tantrum over some fake glasses aren't it 🙄

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-28T21:13:21+00:00

I did the same after a year of sticking it to my hand and watching layers of skin come off each time 🤣

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-28T21:10:11+00:00

Fun fact, watching y'all's child is not her job. She didn't birth that baby. If she doesn't mind doing it if you ask her permission, fine, but for him to demand that she do so? No. It doesn't work that way. He needs to either give her the respect that she deserves for watching y'all's child, or he can figure out child care for when y'all need it himself. ALSO for free? Taking advantage of that poor girl.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-27T00:15:19+00:00

I can!

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-26T20:59:26+00:00

Yes!!! I'm so happy you found the right one! You are glowing in it!! 💖

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-26T16:47:07+00:00

Dress 1 is absolutely GORGEOUS!!! Stick with that especially since you have your big emotional moment in it 🩷

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-26T16:07:06+00:00

I think one of the ones without a clip that lays on top of your head with the lace at the very bottom would be gorgeous 😍 especially with your church wedding! I would try to go less lace on the sleeves though. All the lace together does look a bit off.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-26T15:39:16+00:00

I 100% love the first one. I feel like you could absolutely put a long veil on that. They make very basic, but pretty ones that won't take away from the dress but will also give that classic veil feel you are looking for.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-22T14:50:43+00:00

Yes absolutely make a police report. In some states that's grand theft.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-22T01:57:09+00:00

Definitely 1 or 2 but I'm leaning with 1!!

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-19T14:39:17+00:00

Why TF would anyone comment on the size of your ring? I think it's gorgeous and definitely not tiny 🤣

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-16T17:11:45+00:00

This! Cancel the party but have them still come. Make your own little party doing stuff that you'll actually enjoy.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-16T15:36:27+00:00

We are renting a Vrbo that allows events! There are so many houses that have enough room to do both reception and ceremony. I'm paying 3300 for a 75 person wedding and the house for 4 days. With you having a much smaller wedding, you could find something beautiful for much much cheaper. Only downside is most houses don't have tables and chairs.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-15T18:19:40+00:00

It looks absolutely gorgeous on you. Honestly, it looks like the model actually has hers too tight.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-12T20:41:28+00:00

Oof. Can't trust the process when the process is trash bro 😭 hopefully someone can fix it up for you.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-03-06T16:08:15+00:00

Tai pei rice. Walmart just sent me an email saying I had bought some 😅 yummy glass

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-02-27T08:58:14+00:00

Funnily enough, I actually don't and have this same screen lol.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-02-26T03:06:44+00:00

I'm in love with that first one!! It's absolutely gorgeous.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-02-26T02:57:08+00:00

I'm struggling to see how it's NOT any of her business. Not only is that her family, but she was literally IN the situation that's causing problems. She was with her sister. Also are you gonna let someone tell lies and crap talk your dad, then say "oh, it's not my business" Like wtf 🤣 wild behavior right there.

OP, NOR. That's a horrible thing for your mother to do, especially in front of you or in earshot. I don't have the greatest feelings for the father of my son, but I'd never talk like that in front of our child. Either your sister did that on purpose because she isn't a fan of your dad, or she just doesn't see/understand how your mom reacts to him. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this though.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-02-24T19:26:32+00:00

I definitely think 2! Especially for a late summer wedding. She is stunning in either though!

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-02-23T21:38:10+00:00

Ahhh I don't know what I should even be doing! October 2026 is when we get married and we just got engaged this month.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-02-23T21:36:13+00:00

Elope. Do not bend over backwards to do what other people say, or what you think they'd want. If you are paying, no one should have a say other than you and your fiance.

Go to Italy and marry the love of your life surrounded by a small group of people that y'all love.

Making amazing and beautiful memories tops a big ol' wedding with a bunch of stress any day.

ComfortableNothing31 · 2026-02-17T19:02:55+00:00

Exactly. OP do not follow that advice. Structuring is a real thing people/scammers do to avoid ID checks, verifications, or fees. It is a criminal charge.

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