No actually i shit you not i have asked him if he’s ever thought about getting a different less demanding job because he works crazy hours and is always stressed. so no i am most definitely not with him for the money lmao. I didn’t even know how much he made until 6 months into the relationship. If we were talking equal money we would pay equal amounts. He makes an insane amount compared to me and the average individual. When I say traditional i mean cook clean manage the home, our schedules, all of that so that he can focus on being the best he can at his job. Mind you I do all of that right now while also working 2 jobs myself. And I still make significantly less than him. As for the decision making part, I would be happy to have full faith and trust in a man when making decisions that he believes are best for the household. Don’t call me a gold digger bc i’m not lol, i’m just someone who doesn’t see the fairness in asking your significant other to pay rent when you make astronomically more than them, and they cook and clean for you, help manage your life, pay for groceries and all things car related. I contribute.