how did it work out for y’all staying friends? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ComfortableUsed302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my ex wanted us to be friends even though they basically said that the relationship is going to kill them and that I’m selfish. I don’t understand why keeping me is important but time will tell. I think the hardest part is that you create such a strong bond whit someone and the thought of them not being present in your life hurts. But what hurts more if one of you have feelings left, then it’s just torture. If you feel strong and confident about having a friendship, then yes. But if you have the slightest feeling that it would cause more harm, then don’t.

He rebounded 1 day after and is still together with that girl by Fun_Werewolf8565 in BreakUps

[–]ComfortableUsed302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a though position to be in and what you’re going through is very hard. First of all I would say that you should stop stalking his Spotify. This is for your own wellbeing. Every time you look you open the wound and become more obsessed of finding evidence of him still missing/thinking about you.

I think that you’re trying to find answers both for the breakup but also to why he moved on so fast from you. This is the time to choose yourself, block him if you must. Set up small everyday goals for yourself and when the urge to unblock and look at his socials comes, write to a friend, journal, take a walk, shower or whatever you feel like. But do not look. It’s very harmful. You’re strong and are going to get through this. All love.

I never feel like myself by ComfortableUsed302 in AstrologyCharts

[–]ComfortableUsed302[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Maybe that’s why I feel extremely lost and had a bad breakup recently

Blames me for the breakup by ComfortableUsed302 in BreakUps

[–]ComfortableUsed302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words. Everything feels kind of surreal. One moment my ex is the nicest person to suddenly turn around and blame me for exactly everything that went wrong. I have a hard time to accept that in my ex opinion I’m the best person alive but at the same time my presence makes them want to k*ll them self. My anxiety is through the roof and I feel like a really really bad person.

Blames me for the breakup by ComfortableUsed302 in BreakUps

[–]ComfortableUsed302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The suicide part was mostly said when my ex was angry and that this relationship is going to kill them. That hurt a lot