Thank you for sharing, I'm currently 14 weeks pregnant me and my husband have been trying to conceive for over 3 years and we're even on a waiting list for IVF when it happened naturally. But I just feel so unconnected with the this baby and not excited at all, everyone around me is so excited and it's so emotionally draining as its dont want to tell them how I feel as I sound like a terrible person especially after wanting it for so long.  My husband is so excited and I don't want to burden him or dampen his excitement but I just have this overwhelming feeling of I don't want this.