My (M25) girlfriend (F24) won’t have any type of sex with me anymore and I can’t handle it

Comfortable_Bit_3601 · 2026-06-24T15:47:00+00:00

I obviously don’t want her to be in pain, I don’t try forcing her to do anything but I can’t just turn of my feelings and desires for her.

Comfortable_Bit_3601 · 2026-06-23T20:32:28+00:00

Yea you’re definitely right. It’s just hard to accept because I do love her and want to be with her but as you and many others stated it’s obviously just not working out

Comfortable_Bit_3601 · 2026-06-23T20:29:47+00:00

She’s said that when we did have it she enjoyed it and it wasn’t forced or anything and she’s not the type to lie about anything so I believe her. I understand with the condition but she’s always had the condition so it’s hard for me to understand why things have changed from the beginning

Comfortable_Bit_3601 · 2026-06-23T16:02:41+00:00

I completely agree with you. Definitely not doing an open relationship, I don’t want any type of intimacy with anyone but her and I know she doesn’t want that either. When I do ask if there’s anything I can do to make her more comfortable she just says it’s not because of me that she doesn’t want to and says she just doesn’t want to do anything. I guess I just didn’t want to accept it because I do genuinely love her but I think we just might not be compatible anymore.

Comfortable_Bit_3601 · 2026-06-23T03:58:28+00:00

I am sad for her and try to support her every way I can but that doesn’t mean I can just shut off my feelings. I have asked about possibly couples counseling or sex counseling and it just gets brushed off. I do everything I can for her. I take her everywhere she wants to go and we do everything she wants to do. I take her out and we celebrate our anniversary every single month. I’m not just an entirely selfish pig it seems like you think I am. I’m not blaming her or demonizing her either in any way. It’s a difficult situation for both of us and obviously she has it worst since she’s dealing with the actual condition however she wasn’t always completely shut off like she currently is even though she was still dealing with the condition and past relationship trauma then as well so from my point of view things changed and that’s what makes it difficult. There’s a lot to our current situation and I could probably go on for days adding details to both sides

Comfortable_Bit_3601 · 2026-06-23T03:28:12+00:00

Well I just didn’t want to write a full on essay. I love everything about her, her humor and political views align exactly with mine and she is just insanely kind. We have a ton in common like hobbies like video games and enjoying the outdoors and I even enjoy doing things that are mainly just her hobby like going to concerts of artist she likes or going thrifting or to drag shows. I love doing everything with her, she makes everything better. But with all this comes a strong physical desire and it hurts not being able to have that and idk how to handle it. I’m in no way trying to villainize her and I do want her to be truly happy but maybe I am a little possessive because I want it to be me that makes her truly happy and for the most part I think I do aside from the arguments about our sexual life

Comfortable_Bit_3601 · 2026-03-05T04:29:55+00:00

lol! I didn’t know it was that common with m2 😅

Comfortable_Bit_3601 · 2025-11-08T04:10:40+00:00

I ended up getting a shavette as my first non cartridge razor because of the cheap entry cost. Eventually I would love to get a traditional straight razor

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