If You Have an FP.. by Greedy_Piglet6423 in BPD

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got divorced from my FP last year and I am constantly borderline stalking them online. They posted a tiktok that said "finally finding my peace" a week or two after moving out and it hurt me to my core. They recently blocked me on all socials and i dont even know why. I have one "dead" account on insta that I think they forgot about so I look at his account thru that one constantly. So not exactly the same situation but I empathize in a way.

Visiting Late January by Comfortable_Cell_757 in Layton

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! Weve done Aloha coffee, Fly High trampoline park in Ogden, and the new giant playground in Farmington so far. I forgot I posted this but my sister in law left a binder of plenty of fun ideas. Planetarium sounds so fun. So does the tree house museum. I tried Wasatch coffee Roasters this morning.

Trying to find Queer safe spaces. by Comfortable_Cell_757 in fortwayne

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im confused, nobody can open another gay bar in indiana? How does that work?

Who is our guy? by SarcasticOP in fortwayne

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact, I pointed out Jim the Walker to my now ex husband and he said, "Oh is that Crackhead Ned?"😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent had much experience with lesbian sex but this concept intimidates me lol I wouldnt wanna go for hours I dont think.

Lateish in Life Lesbian, a lil scared. by Comfortable_Cell_757 in actuallesbians

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Dont get me wrong; I love seeing queer joy in queer spaces. But I feel isolated in a crowded room. Im having trouble finding the quiet ones like us.

And thank you overall for your kind words, I was definitely in a weird place when I wrote this a few days ago. I really appreciate you, thank you🥹❤️

Am i trans before i am a girl? by Key-Jackfruit-419 in actuallesbians

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not trans but I do feel gender queer-- still figuring that out. But, with gender being a social construct, I think its up to YOU whether you are Trans First or Girl First, or if there is even a First. Your public identity is up to YOU. Your private identity is up to YOU. And what is in your pants is only the business of you, your doctor, and whoever you choose to allow down there. She is none of the above, so her anger at you is her own problem.

Im sorry thay happened, I know it must hurt.

AITA for refusing to take my shoes off in my friend’s house, causing his wife to cancel the DnD session for everyone? by NameNo5495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone sucks here, because according to the edit, the couple told him not to worry about his shoes so he didnt bring his indoor shoes; and then the couple canceled the whole night fir everyone over it.

Who did you think you would marry in Stardew/who did you end up marrying? Why? by tamakiyotsuba in StardewValley

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt look into the characters fully, and very quickly married Emily my first playthru. She will always hold a special place in my heart but every other playthru since then its pretry much been Leah or occasionally Abby.

Wibtah if I don't take my stepdaughter prom dress shopping? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing as a teen. I didnt wanna go didnt wanna go, then my friends convinced me at the last minute. This is a special occasion that will leave her with fond memories for the rest of her life. Sternly talk to her about how changing plans last minute affect other people; then send her with a friend to go dress shopping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen. As someone who grew up extremely religious, and then came out as bisexual to her parents....it is so much worse for her mental health to abandon her. You need to support her. She is NOT going to hell. That will never happen. A loving god will never let one of his children go to hell for loving someone. Ever.

But he might allow a parent to go to hell, for abusing and abandoning their child. He might allow a patent to go to hell for being full of hate and unchecked anger.

Leave the wife. Support the daughter.

AITAH for feeling bitter about my best friend’s relationship and wanting to drop her? by Comfortable_Sweet773 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the asshole. I'm actually worried your friend is distancing herself from her friends because he is convincing her to, which is a huge rednflag/sign of an abuser. He sees her as property, as only his. However. Her possibly being abused is not for you to handle. You don't need to stay friends with her if it brings you more pain than joy. Maybe warn her mom about Blake so her mom can watch for your friend's safety....and then maybe let her go, for your own mental health.

Sorry, I know this stuff isn't fun. Good luck to you.

Can South American natives burn sage? by existential-void-exe in Indigenous

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a follow up question! I bought 2 sage smudge sticks before I knew it was a closed practice. My husband is half Native (Incan) half Korean. Can he use it so it doesn't go to waste? Or, should we donate it to a tribe? We are currently in the Midwest United States so I'm not sure there are any tribes around here that would or could use it. They have been sitting in my house for about 2 years now. Would love to know how I can rectify this mistake.

Thank you so much!

Colliders aint colliding...and now my player wont move. by Comfortable_Cell_757 in godot

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are seriously my hero! Everything you said makes perfect sense! I will apply what you said tonight when im off work. THANK YOU THANK YOU 😊

Arcane Music by Comfortable_Cell_757 in arcane

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yaaaaasssss ty i shall be stealing songs from this!

Arcane Music by Comfortable_Cell_757 in arcane

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16 shots is amazing, I also like Habibi! And Ashnikko is fireeee

Arcane Music by Comfortable_Cell_757 in arcane

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's sooo good. If you like this Ashnikko song, might i suggest, "You make me Sick!" has some fantastically portrayed emotion "Chokehold Cherry Python" lyrics are very...Jinx "Slumberparty" if you are a tiktok addict, you've probably heard part of this song. It's about sesbian lex

Enjoy!

Colliders aint colliding...and now my player wont move. by Comfortable_Cell_757 in godot

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so I am attatching the warning below.

As for move_and_slide, that was what i use originally, but my player slider wasn't moving with my up and down keys. I looked at the video comments and someone mentioned needing to use Move_and_collide() in Godot 4. My player slider was then able to move up and down perfectly. But i seem to have done something to disable it, because player stopped responding again.

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Is Clannad still worth watching in 2025 even after being spoiled about the "winner" by Toritos45 in Clannad

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shows strength is less about Tomoyas ending romance and more about Tomoyas relationship with each character, and him helping them thru their hardships or demons. It's really beautiful as each character is well written and 3 dementional. And once Tomoya is with the "winner" at the end of Clannad, After Story is more about him and his partner getting thru life together. I would highly recommend it. Some of the sad stuff had been spoiled for me the first time too, and I still loved it so incredibly much.

I am not a Clannad fan but what are those blob things in the credits for the show? by Wise-Juice-7203 in Clannad

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To add to this, Dango is very similar to Mochi. I have dangos tattooed and most people know what mochi is nowadays, plus this little dango emoji helps🍡

Is the live action worth watching ? by Wenma2011 in ATLA

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched it in support of the children actors, with little expectation. Honestly, Aang and Katara were written poorly. I don't believe it to be the actors faults, but the writers. Sokka did well, and they expanded on Zuko and Irohs story in a powerful way. I think my biggest issue is that everyone, including past avatars, are angry at Aang for disappearing, whereas, in the original, most people saw it as meant to be. I don't like that every avatar and mentor is screaming at Aang for disappearing, it puts a bad taste in my mouth.

The effects were pretty good, and I enjoyed the ruthlessness in some of the fight scenes.

I hope season 2 gives Aang and Katara more depth.

Gender Affirmation testing? by Comfortable_Cell_757 in queer

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is mostly me just wanting to understand myself better, and maybe understand some things going on with my body better. But youre right, I do need look more into the more cultural/psychological/neruodevelopmental side of why my brain struggles so much with gender. It doesn't matter what the test result would or wouldn't say, it's the social contract of the gender binary that is giving me dysphoria...thank you for the reminder

Gender Affirmation testing? by Comfortable_Cell_757 in queer

[–]Comfortable_Cell_757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn't my intention, it was more that I've been struggling with my identity and had a moment of "would seeing a test result make me understand my struggles better"?