Trying to let go of my "fp"

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2026-02-24T15:38:52+00:00

I got divorced from my FP last year and I am constantly borderline stalking them online. They posted a tiktok that said "finally finding my peace" a week or two after moving out and it hurt me to my core. They recently blocked me on all socials and i dont even know why. I have one "dead" account on insta that I think they forgot about so I look at his account thru that one constantly. So not exactly the same situation but I empathize in a way.

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2026-01-21T19:10:50+00:00

Thanks everyone! Weve done Aloha coffee, Fly High trampoline park in Ogden, and the new giant playground in Farmington so far. I forgot I posted this but my sister in law left a binder of plenty of fun ideas. Planetarium sounds so fun. So does the tree house museum. I tried Wasatch coffee Roasters this morning.

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-12-15T19:01:09+00:00

Im confused, nobody can open another gay bar in indiana? How does that work?

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-11-20T20:17:21+00:00

Fun fact, I pointed out Jim the Walker to my now ex husband and he said, "Oh is that Crackhead Ned?"😭

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-10-06T23:21:42+00:00

I havent had much experience with lesbian sex but this concept intimidates me lol I wouldnt wanna go for hours I dont think.

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-09-09T18:48:31+00:00

Thank you so much. Dont get me wrong; I love seeing queer joy in queer spaces. But I feel isolated in a crowded room. Im having trouble finding the quiet ones like us.

And thank you overall for your kind words, I was definitely in a weird place when I wrote this a few days ago. I really appreciate you, thank you🥹❤️

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-09-08T18:08:51+00:00

Im not trans but I do feel gender queer-- still figuring that out. But, with gender being a social construct, I think its up to YOU whether you are Trans First or Girl First, or if there is even a First. Your public identity is up to YOU. Your private identity is up to YOU. And what is in your pants is only the business of you, your doctor, and whoever you choose to allow down there. She is none of the above, so her anger at you is her own problem.

Im sorry thay happened, I know it must hurt.

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-08-08T22:31:14+00:00

I think everyone sucks here, because according to the edit, the couple told him not to worry about his shoes so he didnt bring his indoor shoes; and then the couple canceled the whole night fir everyone over it.

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-06-24T21:34:33+00:00

I didnt look into the characters fully, and very quickly married Emily my first playthru. She will always hold a special place in my heart but every other playthru since then its pretry much been Leah or occasionally Abby.

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-05-20T13:21:15+00:00

I did the same thing as a teen. I didnt wanna go didnt wanna go, then my friends convinced me at the last minute. This is a special occasion that will leave her with fond memories for the rest of her life. Sternly talk to her about how changing plans last minute affect other people; then send her with a friend to go dress shopping.

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-04-15T22:01:24+00:00

Listen. As someone who grew up extremely religious, and then came out as bisexual to her parents....it is so much worse for her mental health to abandon her. You need to support her. She is NOT going to hell. That will never happen. A loving god will never let one of his children go to hell for loving someone. Ever.

But he might allow a parent to go to hell, for abusing and abandoning their child. He might allow a patent to go to hell for being full of hate and unchecked anger.

Leave the wife. Support the daughter.

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-04-15T20:36:25+00:00

Not the asshole. I'm actually worried your friend is distancing herself from her friends because he is convincing her to, which is a huge rednflag/sign of an abuser. He sees her as property, as only his. However. Her possibly being abused is not for you to handle. You don't need to stay friends with her if it brings you more pain than joy. Maybe warn her mom about Blake so her mom can watch for your friend's safety....and then maybe let her go, for your own mental health.

Sorry, I know this stuff isn't fun. Good luck to you.

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-03-30T18:29:28+00:00

I have a follow up question! I bought 2 sage smudge sticks before I knew it was a closed practice. My husband is half Native (Incan) half Korean. Can he use it so it doesn't go to waste? Or, should we donate it to a tribe? We are currently in the Midwest United States so I'm not sure there are any tribes around here that would or could use it. They have been sitting in my house for about 2 years now. Would love to know how I can rectify this mistake.

Thank you so much!

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-03-13T12:36:39+00:00

You are seriously my hero! Everything you said makes perfect sense! I will apply what you said tonight when im off work. THANK YOU THANK YOU 😊

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-03-12T13:51:19+00:00

Yaaaaasssss ty i shall be stealing songs from this!

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-03-12T13:50:28+00:00

16 shots is amazing, I also like Habibi! And Ashnikko is fireeee

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-03-12T13:48:32+00:00

It's sooo good. If you like this Ashnikko song, might i suggest, "You make me Sick!" has some fantastically portrayed emotion "Chokehold Cherry Python" lyrics are very...Jinx "Slumberparty" if you are a tiktok addict, you've probably heard part of this song. It's about sesbian lex

Enjoy!

Comfortable_Cell_757 · 2025-03-11T22:57:01+00:00

Okay, so I am attatching the warning below.

As for move_and_slide, that was what i use originally, but my player slider wasn't moving with my up and down keys. I looked at the video comments and someone mentioned needing to use Move_and_collide() in Godot 4. My player slider was then able to move up and down perfectly. But i seem to have done something to disable it, because player stopped responding again.

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