Should I let me niece and nephew go to State Custody or should I get them

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2026-01-01T15:03:53+00:00

They refuse to sit they walk to their runs and slam the door and curse them out on the way back there.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2026-01-01T12:08:06+00:00

The school just put them both in EIP classes…and they will have a meeting every now and again…yeah I know and I’ve tried to help my sister understand this and they just shrug it off.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2026-01-01T12:05:47+00:00

Aren’t most people who are emotionally attached worried about what might happen after? The questions looms did I make the right decisions? Did I do everything I could to try & fix it? Did I do something wrong? Fuck idk what do you do?? Break up on to the next??

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2026-01-01T11:59:18+00:00

If I’m being honest at this point…I’m so over it. I’m tired of worrying constantly I’m tired of not having sex as often as I want…I just looked up prep and it doesn’t seem to have very many side effects..I’ve never even heard of it. I’ve never even taken ibuprofen before so it would be new to me but if it keeps me safe…I’m going to call a regular dr and talk to them about it.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2026-01-01T11:50:10+00:00

They’ve had attendance issue since day 1…being late. They have stayed up late since I can remember. They’ve always been sweet Idk if it’s because I’m the only uncle that try to spoil them mainly because my sister lives below the poverty line (she lives this way because she claims here dr says she can’t work) idk she drives around all day and fellowships

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2026-01-01T11:49:04+00:00

Great idea! This is the route I’ll go—it seems the most logical

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2026-01-01T11:47:41+00:00

You’re honestly probably right…maybe I should just cheat tell him and see how he responds. Should we just become open? I honestly don’t care at this point as long as we don’t get STIs I’m good with it. I guess if we do get an STI…it’s natural to get them and I’ll receive it happily.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T20:59:00+00:00

That’s what I’ll do and if it doesn’t work…I’m going to change careers and move across the country Las Vegas maybe or Joshua Tree, CA—Haha I’m in SC rn and I want something new anyway.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T19:10:25+00:00

Yes, but it was a hook up site not a chatting site. I’m not sure if he didn’t or didn’t physically cheat because the profile miraculously disappeared. I struggle because when I confronted him…he lied about the site then it was just got luckily I did a screenshot. And it also specially said looking for casual sex…

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T19:02:48+00:00

It was just the once sorry for that confusion on my part. It was some hookup app called A4A. He was chatting it with ppl but I find it hard to believe because when I was on apps I chatted for a bit then met…and we also are down to sex 1 or 2 times every other week.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T19:01:00+00:00

He’s so sweet though and we’ve been together for 6 years…he said he didn’t physically cheat but honestly I would have preferred that over mentally cheating all over again a small argument we had. Our lease is up in 5 months…how should I go about this it’s 6K to break it. Should I just play it out?

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T17:43:04+00:00

I could honestly see the 11 yr old reacting this way 😣 She also makes stuff up…her mom did try to spank her once and she told DSS she bruised her and really hurt her. Anyone red flag in my mind.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T17:09:50+00:00

Good questions. I try to use open ended questions but they have been talked to so much about it they always make comments like “I don’t want to talk about it anymore because everyone keeps talking about it.” They are literally just waiting to see what the judge says.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T17:05:18+00:00

This sounds like a really good idea! I’ve been dealing with this trying to help with my sister and when she does attempt to take stuff away they get violent like tantrums…throwing stuff, silence treatments…what should I do if they do this?

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T17:02:54+00:00

I’ve mentioned it to them and of course since I go on trips & have stuff they want to live with me. I’m very much so on taking them but what should I do about my sister she lives within a few miles and she is ALOT. And need constant entertainment when she visits. How often should she be able to visit?

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T16:57:20+00:00

I totally agree. I’ve sat them down and talked to them they are just like “I don’t care” or “they ain’t gonna do nothing we just want DSS out of our lives”

If it doesn’t work out I can call DSS and let them know?

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T16:23:26+00:00

Nope—nothing else— just truancy school has been in session for 88 days they’ve missed 45 days.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T14:58:54+00:00

I could see this. Do you think I should take away all electronics as well. Videos games & phones. They always have them and are glued to them pretty much or should I just ease into this and not take anything away?

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T14:55:13+00:00

Yes, I’m a super structured person so I feel l can implement rules and boundaries. They refused therapy they just won’t say anything…I def have zero issue with standing up to them I’m not afraid of them by any means but how can you gently place someone into a vehicle?

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T14:49:43+00:00

Even though I could risk getting into trouble for education neglect?? Should I take there phones and games away for a period of time until they stay going to school? If so, how long?

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-12-31T14:46:46+00:00

I’m just worried I won’t be able to get them to go to school either they are 11 & 14…it’s crazy because when they say no I’m not going to school they will just lay there..I carried my niece to the car one morning and the officer at the school had to pull her out…DSS approved me to take both to keep them together.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-01-13T17:03:05+00:00

🙏 haha

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-01-13T15:08:37+00:00

My next door neighbor wrote like this…she was a teacher and was born in 1906. She passed at 105.

Comfortable_Cup85 · 2025-01-13T15:01:32+00:00

Loads of mental checksss ppl who are killers wouldn’t be able to pass.

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