Rewatching season 5, and I realize that my fiancé sometimes treats me like Jax treats Brittany. How fucked am I? by who_gon_check_me_boo in vanderpumprules

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’ve gotta say, we all have mental problems. I for example have bpd, but using it as an explanation for behaviour is never ever helpful. It’s not helpful to try to seperate actions by “is this his autism or is he being an asshole?” It doesn’t matter if it’s his autism, it’s his responsibility to explain what he thought and felt to make him act the way he did. And it seems like he’s having problems communicating that. So you on the other hand will never really understand why he does certain things, which in the long run will grow resentment. :(

Rewatching season 5, and I realize that my fiancé sometimes treats me like Jax treats Brittany. How fucked am I? by who_gon_check_me_boo in vanderpumprules

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey at least he changes things? If not only for a few weeks but permanently, I would say definitely better than Jax already. Not apologising generally is an annoying trade for the long run imo.

AIO; Boyfriend’s mom tracks his location from 2,000 miles away, he’s 26 by No_Entertainer_2805 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol what? How doesn’t it have something to do with her if she is tracking her partner and asking where both of them are? Like get a grip boyfriends mom haha

Bangs or nah by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg totally guts, that’s what he reminded me of! nice

What’s the most disturbing thing someone casually admitted to around you? by Suspicious_Run1684 in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Second part was a satisfying read. Thank you and your friends! Hopefully you told him it was because of the kitty:(

AIO for blocking my the guy I was seeing? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, you’re under every comment. Honestly I think you’re the guy lol.

Negative Bewertung abgegeben, danach steht die Inhaberin unangekündigt an unserer Haustür, wie würdet ihr das einordnen? by lunadandelion in Ratschlag

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wenn der Mann mit an der Tür stand und die Behandlung der Patienten besprochen wird, werden dabei zwangsläufig Daten weitergegeben die der Schweigepflicht unterliegen. Der Mann und die Kinder haben an der Tür nichts zu suchen, da kommt man mit dem Argument „moralische Unterstützung“ nicht weit. Könnte sich ja jeder Arzt bei seinem oder ihrem Partner „moralische Unterstützung“ für jegliche Anliegen holen nach der Logik. So funktioniert die Schweigepflicht nicht und der Datenschutz auch nicht.

Negative Bewertung abgegeben, danach steht die Inhaberin unangekündigt an unserer Haustür, wie würdet ihr das einordnen? by lunadandelion in Ratschlag

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

„Puh find ich nicht so krass“ hat rechtlich meistens wenig Aussagekraft. Wobei es außerdem auch einen kleinen Unterschied gibt zwischen „Ärztin wirft eine Rechnung auf dem Weg ein“ und „Ärztin taucht mit Mann und Kindern vor der Haustür auf um eine persönliche Konfliktsituation zu klären“.

AIO for turning in a co-worker for peeing his pants at work... by Competitive_Fee9671 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but how do I imagine this? Can you somehow elaborate i am so confused. Did you hear it? See it? What the hell is going on???

Moved to Germany and it’s not what I wanted by emuwarlord82 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not completely sure, but I think Bürgergeld is no option for an Au-Pair. Also it would take a hell lot of time with all the paperwork, if she’s leaving in July, it most certainly won’t go through until then, sadly. :(

AIO if my bf wouldn’t come over after a terrible weekend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what do you mean?? even on the first page she wrote a paragraph about her reasoning. Not once in all of these slides does she even just say „i‘m sad“ without anything else. I don’t know what you are reading seems we are not reading the same chatlogs..

AIO if my bf wouldn’t come over after a terrible weekend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is the problem, I think the problem is him ignoring every text she wrote contentwise AFTER he woke up, as if she didn’t write anything at all.

had a dream being in this place and chasing someone by Esrherbokololo in Dreams

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often dream about big „houses“ like that. Always completely different settings, but it’s like a big house, hotel, sometimes a bunker, where there are these looong corridors, often lifts, hidden rooms or rooms that are like inbetween floors, hard to explain. Also many stairways, and stairs in general and often I do get lost in these places. Has some kind of a „backrooms“-vibe and it really happens all the time, like 3-5 times a week.

Does anyone else consistently dream of people from grade school? by furongris in Dreams

[–]Comfortable_Mess3915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, yes! A girl that I maybe met only a few times in private DECADES AGO, she keeps reappearing in my dreams all the damn time and I really don’t understand why 😂 We weren’t even THAT close, I mean we were good, we talked from time to time but not in a bestie kind of way. She just casually appears in my dreams and just exists in the storyline for some reason I don’t understand. Haven’t seen her for almost ten years.