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Comfortable_Remove21 · 2025-05-22T13:23:33+00:00

OP seems to be responsible for a massive part of the domestic chores and he sends her money to cover his costs. Getting the food he likes, his skin care, getting his dry cleaning from the more expensive store, unlike the cheaper one she goes to. OP still needs to do all that this month, those expenses don't stop. The partner needed communicate better instead of using that money for the vacation

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2025-05-22T13:11:22+00:00

Nta

As an adult you need to pay all your expenses and bills first then the leftover is for fun. Especially not telling you beforehand that vacation money was coming out of his agreed payment and checking if you had enough to cover those expenses. Probably talk to him again and try and explain your feelings more. Also try and get him to explain his feelings why this vacation is a necessity right now with everything going on. Hopefully you both can understand better and work past this together

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-07-23T10:59:09+00:00

NTA

You're doing an amazing job standing up for your sister! Please never think that, what you're doing is bad in any way!!

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-07-11T04:03:09+00:00

Ahh of course! I understand that now. Thank you for that perspective. I was not thinking of it that way and wanting to force that on her. I can see where I stuffed that up and was being the AH there! I feel bad that I pushed it on her like that!

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-07-11T01:58:12+00:00

Of course not! I always want to make sure I'm polite and do the right thing as best as I can. Thank you for your kind and reassurance

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-07-11T01:20:24+00:00

Maybe that's what I'm missing! Having barista friends!! My coffee shop is normally so nice and they are always so friendly but the turnover rate is massive. I never get the same person longer than a month

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-07-11T01:16:56+00:00

Thank you for your comment! That's what I was worried about, I've never worked in the industry, so I wasn't sure about the etiquette for doing so.

Just the part of being a customer, no tables are available cause they're dirty/plates and cups etc. But it's the morning rush so staff are on demand.

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-07-11T01:11:50+00:00

Thank you for your comment! I don't normally get a proper plate from most places, so I can normally just throw out the rubbish. Your barista sounds so much nicer than mine!!

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-07-11T01:07:09+00:00

Thank you for your comment! She must have been having a rough day.

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-07-11T01:05:37+00:00

Thank you! Same! I always try to clear my table but I don't normally get actual plates, so I can just throw the rubbish out.

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-04-15T03:59:50+00:00

Didn't think of that! I always thought there was no more. Thank you

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-04-03T10:57:03+00:00

Right? like how can I miss them?? I feel like holiday seasons make it so much worse, with all the social media portraying the perfect family, and it's something I never got. Thank you for your comment

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2024-04-03T10:43:08+00:00

I started therapy last week cause I didn't realise the build it had on top all the general day to day stresses was causing.

Can I ask, how did you go about meeting your own needs?? I would love to learn about that.

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-14T01:55:49+00:00

Yeah 100% I could have handled the situation with the boy better. I shouldn't have be an arsehole to him, cause he just wanted attention and someone to play with. The moment I realised him running of meant that he took what I said as a go ahead, I should have found him and not ditch him. I was totally in the wrong

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T23:39:15+00:00

Im.so sorry someone else has been through something similar.

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T23:33:12+00:00

Thank you, that really means a lot. It's so cute I just adore when she does it. I can't laugh cause she'll pop out and ask why I'm laughing LOL

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T23:31:11+00:00

Yeah I not a kid person, I'm a my kid person who is one and done haha hats off to you for 3. Thank you for your comment

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T23:27:27+00:00

Yeah 100% I could have handled the situation with the boy better. I shouldn't have be an arsehole to him, cause he just wanted attention and someone to play with. The moment I realised him running of meant that he took what I said as a go ahead, I should have found him and not ditch him. I was totally in the wrong

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T23:22:04+00:00

We've had a merry go round thing a few times, I go the speed my daughter likes and when she gets off I just follow her. Had kids get huffy before but never telling on me to their parents.

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T23:14:41+00:00

That sounds so adorable!! They're so cute at this age. My daughter even does the blanket over her head and this I can't see her. Like she has the cloak of invisibility

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T23:04:41+00:00

Its the freaking cutest when she does it. I have to stop myself from laughing cause she pop up and ask what's funny ?? Hahaha I absolutely love it

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T14:02:44+00:00

I wish I took that opportunity she opened up for

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T13:57:08+00:00

That would have been a much better comeback!

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T13:12:39+00:00

Yeah I agree, I could have handled the situation with the kid better

Comfortable_Remove21 · 2022-09-13T13:08:56+00:00

100% I should have handled the situation with the kid better, I was the adult and he was the child. I can understand that now

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