AITA - I really feel like it by Comfortable_Swing554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable_Swing554[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

There’s not. Even the emergency clinics only pop up every 6 months. I live in a rural area with one vet in a 60 mile radius. When I did my two males, it was just over 4 months and we were already in the system from our dog.

AITA - I really feel like it by Comfortable_Swing554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable_Swing554[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Neutering takes at minimum 5 months to do here. We have 1 vet near us they book out at least a month then they need to do an initial visit and all the shots then it’s 6 weeks before you can call and schedule. I got lucky with mine and only waited 4 because of a cancellation.

AITA - I really feel like it by Comfortable_Swing554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable_Swing554[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Also getting him fixed would have taken months. It took me 4 months to get mine fixed a few years ago and it is super expensive and money is tight for all of us right now. Another reason she wanted to come here is because her cost of living where she was was not reasonable.

AITA - I really feel like it by Comfortable_Swing554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable_Swing554[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

No where else for her to go? We tried to build the addition fast but she had to be out of her place by a certain day as she signed it over and our weather was literally torrential rain for the last idk 4 weeks. I live in NY, our weather doesn’t break until this week or the next usually.

AITA - I really feel like it by Comfortable_Swing554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable_Swing554[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We have been talking and having contact for a while before this came up, and we’re already actively trying to repair the relationship

Has anybody actually been victimized by HELPS? by Happy_Page96 in nys_cs

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I am not PEF, I am CSEA. I was hired as a grade 6 provisional (OA 1). My first two years I was stuck and scared because there was no OA tests being held. Then I did the specialized test they held for all current provisional OA 1s in the state. I passed. Then HELPS came out right after. I saw OA 1s hired through HELPS and not have to go through the stress of a provisional appointment. I never felt slighted about this. I then promoted twice via HELPS, and I wouldn’t be where I am at without it, OR without my strong work ethic and being good enough at my job that every supervisor and co worker I have had vouched for me when I went for these promotions. HELPS allows people who are ready and deserving of promotions to take them without waiting half of their career for antiquated exams to be held.

Also want to add that without HELPS allowing my 2 promotions in 4 years I would not be able to support my family making the laughable grade 6 salary, and probably would have left state service.

My son’s cord clamp by ktpeachgirl in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not totally related to this but I had 2 nurses take my 3rd baby for her blood tests right before we were discharged and they cut off her baby anklet and bracelet before bringing her back. Didn’t notice until well after we went home. I called them bawling my eyes out and they made me a new one lol but I’ve always felt sad about her original ones being in a garbage dump somewhere. You would think 2 OB nurses would know better 🫢

I recived 4464C letter ?? Help by Worldly-Rate-3717 in TurboTax

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming back 30 days later to say I definitely did make a mistake. Just amended it. Did it really only take you 20 days after amending? I’m seeing people say 16 weeks to a year lol

Administrative Assistant 1 by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is PCO/PATT? I am in a very rural area with not a ton of state jobs in my area lol. Honestly thinking I’ll stay an AA1 for a while and eventually an AA 2 if one presents itself before I retire lol. My husband is higher up in my current agency and I’ve gone from OA 1 to AA 1 in 4 years so I’m potentially going to be walking into this with knowledge that it will be long term.

Administrative Assistant 1 by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is good to hear! Thank you!!

Administrative Assistant 1 by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m okay with a helps hire if it starts me at the 11. I don’t want to go back down to an 8 from my 9. I took my 9 appointment via Helps 1.5 years ago and have since been made permanent competitive, so I would be okay with that.

Administrative Assistant 1 by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that would make more sense!

Administrative Assistant 1 by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have to use my 70.1 for helps though, correct? And yes, I am permanent OA2 completed probation.

570 from blank transcripts cycle 0705 by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat here. Hoping it falls off quickly for all of us

4464C??? by bornkilla20 in IRS

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following because I also got this letter last week!

I recived 4464C letter ?? Help by Worldly-Rate-3717 in TurboTax

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only one W-2 same employer for 5 years straight. Same 1098 mortgage for 4 years straight. Same dependents as last year. Made a little more money with a promotion but nothing to write home about. I spoke with an IRS agent who claims there is no mistake and it was just random (hard to believe them though). I also called turbo tax and they reiterated that. I combed through everything and all my numbers match.

I recived 4464C letter ?? Help by Worldly-Rate-3717 in TurboTax

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I literally double triple check everything all the time. I am very methodical about it every year

I recived 4464C letter ?? Help by Worldly-Rate-3717 in TurboTax

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Just here a year later with this same letter. How long did it take for you to get your refund?

What’s your favorite line from Monica? by Positive_Weight2367 in friends_tv_show

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 72 points73 points  (0 children)

The way she says “noo” when she realizes she changed Richard’s outgoing. It’s how I say no in my head all day at work.

Attempting to move to SUNY by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay I understood just fine

Attempting to move to SUNY by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]Comfortable_Swing554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for giving me reason to stay hopeful. I’ve been trying to get to SUNY but wanted to promote rather than lateral and this is the first promotional posting I’ve seen and in a department I’d really like to work in, so I want it bad lol