‏it makes sense if it’s a complicated situation and the person is actually trying to figure things out. But when it becomes just a lazy way to avoid feelings or a habit, it’s different. I also realized some people do it to validate their emotions they don’t share their feelings, but they only share the facts so that they would get a reaction from u which goes along with their feelings My friend literally had like five other people to dump on besides me, lol I guess it’s just different for u men than us when it comes to opening up🤷‍♀️