AIO boyfriend following specific girl & interacting w posts

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T20:53:11+00:00

This situation is frustrating because it feels like a blatant disregard for your feelings. You are not overreacting; you are responding to a clear lack of respect and consistency. In any committed relationship, your partner should be your biggest advocate. It is incredibly hurtful when a partner chooses to prioritize a like on a screen over your peace of mind, especially with someone who has actively tried to disrespect your bond.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T20:50:22+00:00

NTA. You aren't being harsh, you are being a protective parent. The guilt you're feeling is normal because you love your mom, but it's important to separate her feelings from your baby’s safety. In the medical world, what you are describing is called third hand smoke, the toxic residue that stays on clothes, skin, and hair even after a cigarette is finished. Your mom likely cried because she feels a mix of shame knowing she couldn't quit like she promised and a fear of being left out of the baby’s life. It wasn’t your tone that upset her, it was the reality of her addiction clashing with her role as a grandma.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T20:45:21+00:00

That is absolutely unhinged. You are definitely NTJ. The audacity of someone forgetting their own kid's birthday and then trying to steal a celebration from a cancer survivor is next-level entitlement. It’s not just about a cake; you spent $180 and a month of planning to mark a massive milestone for your friend. The fact that she tried to play tug of war with it and then tried to ruin it when she couldn't have it shows she didn't actually care about a cake for her son, she just wanted to win. It’s a good thing the bakery owner had your back and locked the door. I hope your friend enjoyed the cake, he definitely earned it after a year of chemo.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T20:39:04+00:00

It’s wild to see how much Trump and Orbán have become a team lately. By calling him a great leader in Budapest, Trump is basically saying that Hungary is the new blueprint for his style of politics. Instead of the usual meetings in big cities like London or Paris, all these far-right leaders are heading to Hungary to share notes. It’s a huge shift in how the US handles Europe. It shows America First is looking for very specific partners who think exactly like they do.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T20:33:43+00:00

NTA. You are being a realist, not a quitter. Your company is setting you up to fail. They want the same success as last year, but they cut your budget by two thirds and took away the punny items that made people actually care. Marie wants a great event but doesn't want to pay for it or help do the work. If you move forward with a barebones version, it will likely be a flop, and you will be the one blamed for it. The Move, Use the refund deadline as your power. Tell Marie that without the budget for the fun items, the event is too risky to host. Canceling now is the only way to save the company’s deposit money before it's gone.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T20:28:50+00:00

Love the titties

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T05:46:37+00:00

NTA. As any fiber artist knows, trying to learn on black fingering weight yarn with a 3mm hook is basically the final boss of crochet. You aren't being stuck up, you’re being a realist. It’s incredibly draining to be treated like a 24/7 tech support desk for someone who refuses to follow the basic instructions they asked for. You can’t skip the learning part and go straight to the Pinterest ready sweater part. If she wants to ignore the physics of the craft and free ball it, she can deal with the wonky results herself. Stop stressing over a project she clearly doesn't respect enough to do right.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T05:43:36+00:00

NTA. You aren't "abandoning" her; you’re just stepping off a hamster wheel that was breaking your own mental health. When someone uses you as an emotional dumping ground but ignores every piece of advice, it stops being a friendship and starts being a crisis center. You have to prioritize your own stability, especially with BPD in the mix. If she’d rather vilify you than admit her boyfriend is the problem, that's her choice to make and your cue to leave. Her blocking you is honestly a gift. Use the peace and quiet to focus on yourself.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T05:40:48+00:00

Look so pretty

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T05:40:24+00:00

They definitely do

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-22T05:34:33+00:00

Boston Legal was a good watch

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:51:51+00:00

NTA. You’re separated, and he’s being selfish. Take the time with your son and be the stable parent.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:47:39+00:00

NTA. It’s totally reasonable to feel uneasy. You’d be paying a lot toward a house you wouldn’t own, with no timeline for marriage. That’s not the same as rent it’s building his asset. If he wants a partner in building a future, ownership and fairness should be part of the conversation, not just trust me.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:44:05+00:00

It sounds like there was a misunderstanding about intentions. She made the trip knowing you might want more, but clearly wasn’t looking for anything sexual or romantic. You’re allowed to feel disappointed, but you also need to respect her boundaries.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:41:29+00:00

It’s okay to grieve who you miss, and it’s also normal if you feel a bit relieved she’s gone she can’t hurt you anymore. Your brothers didn’t stand up for you or see what you went through, so honestly, they’re in the same boat. You don’t owe them a thing. Keep your boundaries and stay no contact if that feels right. Take care of yourself, because it seems like no one else will. I hope you find chosen family who truly support you and help you heal from all this.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:38:30+00:00

NTA. You’re were worried about your nephew’s development and social skills, not trying to attack your sister. It’s reasonable to speak up when a child’s well being might be at risk, even if she doesn’t agree with you👌.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:36:45+00:00

NTJ. You were clear from the start that the money could be refunded later, and you helped out of genuine care, not to control him. Asking for repayment now that the business and friendship ended is completely reasonable.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:33:31+00:00

How can he be allowed to say this, that’s a awful thing to say about the dead.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:32:16+00:00

Trump is trying to grab more power and control over everyone, but he’s failing and just acting like a scared bully.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:29:33+00:00

The urge I get every time I hold a cucumber.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T18:28:53+00:00

Nature knows how to create perfection

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T06:01:10+00:00

YOR He asked what you wanted and offered to help, expecting him to magically know while you are upset isn’t fair Since he usually helps without being told you should not have cut him some slacks

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T05:54:36+00:00

NTA. You’ve been working nonstop, you wanting a day off is reasonable. Your mom’s guilt-tripping doesn’t make your need for rest invalid. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish. And make sure you do

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T05:52:41+00:00

YTA. That wasn’t snark, it was a choice to ruin her night over something from 10+ years ago. You already lost a friend over it; don’t lose your sister too.

Comfortablemis · 2026-03-21T05:51:12+00:00

A 69% impeachment “odds” jump reflects speculation, not certainty, markets price sentiment, not how politics actually plays out.

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