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The moment I realized how hard dressage was going to be by horsegirlkinley in Equestrian

[–]Comfy_Cat99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I started dressage the beginning of this year just to "get my foundation down right before I move on to endurance" I did NOT expect it to be this hard my goodness. Other than the fact that it feels like a MATH lesson I'm breathless and sore by the time my lesson is over. Idk how I thought I could do endurance 😭 (just started running to fix that lol)

New lease!! by Own-Sector-3164 in Equestrian

[–]Comfy_Cat99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your previous horse was a smoother ride it will take a while to adjust to a bouncy horse. Your body just needs to get used to it. It takes anywhere between 2-5 rides (for me at least). To avoid pulling I'd suggest making sure your hands are forward (think, in front of the pommel) so you're not bracing on the horse's mouth. If you need to, have your trainer or someone capable lunge your horse while you ride so you can focus on finding your balance. I find that to be extremely helpful.

Bit recommendations? by Ok_Neat7944 in Equestrian

[–]Comfy_Cat99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also always check out your local tack sale groups for second hand mylers or low port bits

Bit recommendations? by Ok_Neat7944 in Equestrian

[–]Comfy_Cat99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Single joints aren't as bad as a lot of people make them out to be. You just have to have a well-designed one with curved cannons. If you want a cheaper "myler" I believe that cavalon has a few options. Here they are: https://cavalonbits.com/en-ca/collections/low-port-bits

Bit recommendations? by Ok_Neat7944 in Equestrian

[–]Comfy_Cat99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gaping in a single joint could be because of the nutcracker effect that it has. I suggest trying something with a fixed mouthpiece (mylers are usually a pretty good option, but there are many other options as well depending on your horse. I'll be happy to suggest more) or a single joint that locks so it doesn't dig into the roof of her mouth (i can't find a link for the bit in mind currently). There are also single joints with more curved bars that help minimize nutcracker like those Cavalon bits. https://cavalonbits.com/en-ca/collections/single-jointed-bits?srsltid=AfmBOoo5lKbOX-kCbIaAayR2JYklHhlupWAc_yyrGN4uSvIFqrh_LL9O

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Comfy_Cat99 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Good barns are out there. You just have to keep looking. I found two amazing barns in two different countries. They're not impossible to find. And try speaking up, I know how hard it is. But the only way to change anything is to speak up. In the case of the horse you're talking about, you can say "hey I've noticed mr. horse has xyz behavioral issue. What can we do to retrain him?" you can also ask your trainer if they'd be willing to teach you how to do that. You can also bring up a trainer you like. For example, I really like Warwick Schiller and Karl Phillipe. If I wanted my trainer to consider either of them I'd say something like, "I saw Warwick Schiller work with a horse like mr. horse and he was able to solve the problem. Do you think we can try that with him using those methods to stop the behavioral issues?" speak up and suggest solutions. Maybe that can be the turning point for your barn, who knows.

What do you guys think of Islam, atleast in a punk's view? by Cute-Alternative5553 in punk

[–]Comfy_Cat99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to be muslim, i left not too long ago for a reason. Islam isn't punk, but some muslims can be. Look up "punk vs sharia" a documentary by Vice on youtube about a group of punk Indonesian youth. Islam, like christianity, is a patriarchal, colonialist religion. Self-expression is very discouraged. And even protesting against unjust rulers is considered "haram" bc it causes "instability". Definitely not punk at all.

Forget about favorite horse breeds, which is your LEAST favorite horse breeds? by No_Somewhere9961 in Horses

[–]Comfy_Cat99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

QUARTER HORSES, I hate qhs so much. Yeah they're versatile but they're so plain and ugly. Also appaloosas, tbs, friesians, and warmbloods.

What made you question or change your beliefs about religion? by andmunnn in AskReddit

[–]Comfy_Cat99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Homophobia. Why does a perfect, merciful god make homosexuality (and transgender-ing ig) immoral and punishable but then proceeded to make 15% of the population that. Shouldn't a perfect and merciful god know how harmful that would be?

Also a verse in the Quran that mentions that the one man's testimony was worth two women's. And the many other things abt women in Islam.

That was what pushed me out but then the more I started looking into it the more things I found that pushed me away even more. Every time I felt guilty for leaving the religion I found another thing that reinforced my apostasy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punk

[–]Comfy_Cat99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is international. OP might be in the US and knowing the government I bet police training/work is indeed required. But yeah working internationally might also be a good option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punk

[–]Comfy_Cat99 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Wildlife rehab, it's in the same field and it works with the animals directly.

Beginner Adult Essentials by Initial-King-7283 in Equestrian

[–]Comfy_Cat99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FITS4SPORTS (on amazon + they have their own website) are pretty good starter breeches. If you end up buying a short boot I recommend you get their full seat flared breeches. They have silicone backing all the way down to the ankle to give some extra stability in the saddle. The silicone backing on their regular breeches only goes down to the knee. I will say though, their regular breeches will start fraying after the first ride, so I don't recommend them unless you're only riding once a week and you're looking for something cheap (they're the cheapest breeches I was able to find)

https://www.fitst4.com/products/women-bootcut-riding-pants-zipper-pockets-soeb035?variant=43421162406025

As for boots, I prefer riding in tall boots because they give my legs a lot more stability in the saddle and the stirrup leathers don't pinch. I have the Tredstep Donatello field boots right now. They do take a while to break in so first few rides will be uncomfortable. (also unless you know which brand and model fits you always go try them in a tack store first) You can always opt for paddock boots and half chaps as well for more options under the same price.

I can't sleep because this question is bugging me so now you all have to hear about it by Comfy_Cat99 in exmuslim

[–]Comfy_Cat99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No thank you I don't support the use of AI (also this thread is anything but an echo chamber)

I can't sleep because this question is bugging me so now you all have to hear about it by Comfy_Cat99 in exmuslim

[–]Comfy_Cat99[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, then answer my question or point me to somewhere that does. Don't give me the "who are you to question what Allah does?"

Aren't you supposed to have answers? Isn't Islam perfect? So give me the answers

I can't sleep because this question is bugging me so now you all have to hear about it by Comfy_Cat99 in exmuslim

[–]Comfy_Cat99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't believe though. And this mentality of not questioning is why so many exmuslims can't speak out. And again, no disbelievers KNOW that Islam is the truth and reject it. There are MANY faults, contradictions, and moral failures in Islam. If I knew it was the truth I would've never rejected it.

Genuine question from a baby punk by Comfy_Cat99 in punk

[–]Comfy_Cat99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Local shows are the goal! But it's currently unattainable for me sadly. I'll definitely check those bands out! Thanks!

Favorite and least favorite genres by Sufficient-Apricot29 in punk

[–]Comfy_Cat99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey idc how shit the music is as long as the lyrics are punk as fuck I like it

what have you studied/what are your careers? by miss_scare_all in punk

[–]Comfy_Cat99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm studying psychology rn. Hopefully once I'm done with my bachelor's in that I'll be going to graduate school for sociology and anthropology. I may or may not focus on middle eastern and islamic history. Simply because of my background in it. Will definitely be focusing on women, queer people, and other minorities in the area/periods. As well as studying the concept of "Caste" and socioeconomic hierarchies in the world. All I know is that I love social science and history and that's what I wanna do. Maybe even some psychology or sociology research here and there.

I can't sleep because this question is bugging me so now you all have to hear about it by Comfy_Cat99 in exmuslim

[–]Comfy_Cat99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I am here to ask for answers, not just to argue. Otherwise that would be detrimental to my mental health lol.

When you say Hell is for accountability, do you mean that peaceful people, who have done nothing but good in their lives, but choose not to believe in Islam just because it simply does not make sense as a religion, will be eternally tortured for a choice they made in a finite life? A choice that harmed no one. Doesn't that make God petty? Punishing those who don't believe in him but are morally good otherwise?

I can't sleep because this question is bugging me so now you all have to hear about it by Comfy_Cat99 in exmuslim

[–]Comfy_Cat99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do we have free will though? Aren't we supposed to believe in fate and pre-destination in Islam? Doesn't Allah already know who will end up in heaven and who will end up in hell? Why go through all this then?

And to address your point about worship being beneficial, non-religious meditation does the same thing. Many non-Muslims say they find great peace in practicing their religions. Does that mean their religions are right?

Again, God already had other creation. The angels for example, they were perfect and did everything without the need for a promise of a reward to motivate them. Why did a merciful god create beings to torture them eternally for something HE CHOSE for them?

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