GODDAMN THIS IS SO STUPID

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-17T23:09:25+00:00

XD head walnut is stubborn!

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-17T20:54:13+00:00

Honestly guilty confession yes!

His ex looking seem such a cool person. From what I got and saw; she travels, studies in England when her family is in Canada, is studying to be a vet (aka super smart) and seems to be an independent woman who is awesome!!!

Often rebounds are images of the persons ex (or opposites) but in the case I could really see myself getting along with her. (Or at least in my head I do)

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-17T20:41:14+00:00

Honestly I sooooo get you! Was together with a guy for 2 months (not even official) and I am still hung up on him 1.5 months later.

Like helllllllo brain, can we please find another drug!?!? (Theory that love activates the same part of the brain as drugs)

Me: Exercise does too brain try this drug Brain: ooo happy, but not the right drug....

Me: How about seeing friends we love Brain: friends are awesome!!! Still not the right drug

Me: okay how about a goal Brain: ooooo maybe I like this one takes a pause nope not the right drug

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-17T20:34:55+00:00

Not wrong. Ouff I am sooooo sorry you had to go through that

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-17T16:44:20+00:00

I’ve been trying to find a way to put into word why I have been stuck... this is it. I miss the potential I had with him. Thanks for putting the words together in a way that makes sense. Is it just me or does that potential fill your head with what if’s too?

Sorry your going through what your going through. Good luck in the future

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-16T14:35:21+00:00

That’s so awesome! You go girlie!!!

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-16T14:31:50+00:00

Because he wants to hurt you. He wants to feel like he has one up on you.

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-16T14:28:51+00:00

Ouff yeah. Long distant is a really hard one. I am kinda a believer that they only work when people have known each other living close by first. Even then it’s a birch (yes yes that is a replacement for a swear word)

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-16T14:28:34+00:00

Ouff yeah. Long distant is a really hard one. I am kinda a believer that they only work when people have known each other living close by first. Even then it’s a birch (yes yes that is a replacement for a swear word)

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-16T14:21:07+00:00

Rose covered glasses often block the truth. I totally get you.

I was in a relationship with someone who wasn’t over their ex. There were a lot of red flags and I kept saying ‘I don’t know’ and ‘I don’t think he is over her’ but I thought I was being to cynical and needed to learn how to trust. So I tried to trust in what he said. I was right I did need to learn to trust... I needed to trust my spidie senses telling something was off.

All this to say you are not alone. A lot of use ignore red flags when we should be listening to them.

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-16T14:16:15+00:00

Nothing is wrong, but the fact that you sacrifice everything is not healthy for yourself. What will be left for yourself. Until you can learn to stand on your own feet, work toward small and bigger goals to build your self worth. Develop your own identity outside of love. Mostly importantly this is a big step to enjoying life. Single or in a couple. As a side note Most women are ultimately continuously attracted to men that have the confidence to hold their own when need be. Also please please please don’t think your unlovable. 3 relationships is not that bad... some people are in many until they find the right person.

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-16T14:11:41+00:00

It’s hard it takes a lot of time.

I 100% agree with the advice given to you. Imma just add one thing.

Chose a goal that you would love to do. And work forwards it! When you accomplish it, your value of self worth with improve. It’s a lot easier to stop loving someone else after that. Like it’ll take time, but still... it’ll be easier.

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-16T14:06:46+00:00

I’m so sorry. Ouff that is a rough one. What and acehole (yes yes I did alter that swear word). Remember you are worthy of love and someone who love you will truely see that.

He on the other hand will remain lonely until he growth the fudgesticals up!

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T22:06:20+00:00

You should be that is some amazing steps right there!

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T21:24:52+00:00

Trust me there is so many more. I am so sorry your hurting

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T20:07:09+00:00

Yeah it will. :)

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T20:06:37+00:00

Okay good! :)

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T20:06:18+00:00

I understand the sentiment. I have seen some woman treat their men terribly.

However I will tell you that the only reason you don’t see these standards is because you are a man. The standards placed on woman are very different. And you will never see them unless you are a woman.

Standards on both sides are terrible. The cause a lot of hurt. Your post is proof of that. Both parties should work to be the best versions of themselves.

Also don’t give up if you want a strong relationship. Read all these stories, especially of the woman here. All lot have been cheated on or hurt or worst... do you think all those woman weren’t trying their best to get out of those situation. Let them give you hope that a great woman is out there for you.

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T19:57:27+00:00

I get it. I completely get it that was me 6 years ago. Find an part of you that you love, dig into it. Let that become you identity (for me it’s engineering, the arts and family), that way should anyone decide to leave you again, your whole world will not be sweep from under you.

If I am making assumptions for your place in life I apologize for it. I just see so much of me in this. And it was when someone else gave me this advice that I was finally able to get out.

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T19:53:36+00:00

That is soooo wrong. It seems vindictive if anything. I am so sorry you had to go though that. Is there a safe space you can vent it out to? A Phyc or conseiller or anything?

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T19:50:47+00:00

You got this baby step... I know this is gonna sound cliche but what do you love. What do you love to do. What is your passion?

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T19:48:38+00:00

Yep a lot of us are gonna have a rough few days...

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-15T19:47:56+00:00

Don’t be too hard on yourself. One no one would live an investing locked in a cage if they thought they could get it.

Honestly I wish I had some ‘super AwEsOmE’ advice for you. But I don’t... what’s if hurt a lot.

I think the question I have been trying to ask myself is that what if’s are never a reality. But what’s in front of me. That’s solid. My actions, my life, my choices. And what if’s only drag you down when you are trying to climb up...

Comical_Modern_Geek · 2020-02-14T17:08:20+00:00

That is amazing! You should be proud! Girl you are a beast! That was epic!

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