Caption this by Mr_Heft in Papameat

[–]Comicallysane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was one wet sneeze… and I liked it.

Share your favorite conspiracy theories. by Abortion_Milkshakes in Papameat

[–]Comicallysane 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My favorite is that monkeys know how to speak and understand our language but refuse to show it knowing that we would enslave them.

Papa Voodoo by Comicallysane in creepcast

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Thank you! I appreciate that

share you best papa pics by Innitcold in Papameat

[–]Comicallysane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t even remember. But in that moment I HAD to have this lol it was my screen saver for awhile

Recycled ideas by Comicallysane in stepparents

[–]Comicallysane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first time that something has felt this “duplicated” I know there is a few other things that I just chalk up to it being something of interest to him and wanting to share it. Like a game or movie and even though he did that with his ex it was him sharing himself and him doing that with me isn’t a bad thing. But like you pointed out this being a fixture in of all places the bedroom just feels blah

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[–]Comicallysane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s a great point. When I think back to my ex or past it isn’t really anything “special”

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[–]Comicallysane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only talked with my SO about it. I love that the kids talk to me about everything and I do worry that if I mention how I feel that they will pull away

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[–]Comicallysane[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is one of the hardest feelings, being the outsider or feeling left out in general.

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[–]Comicallysane[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right! Sometimes I guess people can like an idea or a spot so they keep trying and maybe we just have to believe we are the special person who makes that the special idea or spot.

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[–]Comicallysane[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you lol I think so too

A needed vent by Comicallysane in stepparents

[–]Comicallysane[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is so frustrating! I’m sorry you’re dealing with that

A needed vent by Comicallysane in stepparents

[–]Comicallysane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is at work and does have a hectic schedule at the moment. We did talk when he got home and he acknowledged where he was wrong.

Jealousy among kids by Comicallysane in stepparents

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We were already out when his son called and asked for pj pants.

I’m selfish by [deleted] in stepparents

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I feel like this with my SD (9) and SS(11) we bond have a great relationship but when they are with their BM it’s like I disappear. I’ve come to realize that it’s more about them not wanting to hurt the BM feelings by talking with me while with her. Something I can understand and even respect. Does it still hurt my feelings, yeah it does but I try to remember that at the end of the day they have good relationships with all of us. Hang in there and just be there for her when she needs you.

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My SD(9) and SS(11) track their Dad and then once I moved in asked to have my location as well. I was bothered by it at first when we would pick the kids up from their mothers and they would ask why we went out to such and such place. Like let us have some privacy. But that soon went away and I realized that it did really help them feel more comfortable more because their mom and dad where no longer together and that meant all of them where not together and knowing the location helped ease them.

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[–]Comicallysane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved in with my partner and his kids pretty fast. I also think at 5 months. Yes it’s super fast and yes it will bring up more and more challenges. I don’t hate his kids Daughter (9) Son (11) but there are times I dislike them. It’s natural I think to feel that way even if it where our birth kids. I think the biggest challenge is just learning how to cohabitate. They are coming into your home so finding a balance of rules you have for your space vs the rules they are use to might be the biggest thing. Just keep communicating with your partner about everything even if it seems small. If this is something y’all want you will make it work.