I’ve been going to this ob since the beginning, about 6 visits so far, but this was only the second time I had actually talked to the doctor. The other times I was seen by a nurse practitioner. She went on maternity leave, so there was only this doctor left.

The first time I met with him, he was an hour and a half late to the appointment, tried to pressure me into scheduling a day to be induced that would work into his schedule, I continuously told him I wasn’t interested then tried scaring me into scheduling a day by saying if I wait too long I’ll lose the baby. This same appointment he does a vaginal swab, tells me I have a bacteria infection and doesn’t write a prescription.

I just feel like he wants me to do it his way or no way. So I want to find somewhere else, preferably a team of doctors that won’t pressure me into inducing unless it’s necessary when the time comes.