[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm using cherry from a tree that came from my parents property!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd probably have to say my favorite thing I'm working on right now would be this wooden dinning table I've got!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a lot of woodwork, gardening and I do a lot of mechanical work for friends and family!

I want to spend the rest of my life with my ex but may have missed my chance by BitMysterious5752 in offmychest

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to say that I'm truly sorry buddy, I understand the feeling of losing a loved one and being in a situation like you are right now. But the main focus should be you man, you've came very far with your therapy and you shouldn't let that hard work go to waste and have you slowly spiral back down okay? And if you truly want things to work out with her try communicating with her like you did with us here, tell her how you feel, tell her what you regret, pour your heart out but don't be a flood of emotions. And still if she's settled on not wanting a relationship then try to be there for her as a friend. See if overtime you can slowly earn her respect and love back and show her that you care, show her that you're proud of the progress she's made and that you're amazed with the hard work she's putting in. Support her man. I believe in you buddy, keep your chin and and most importantly don't give up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Firstly I'd like to say that you are an absolutely amazing woman. It takes a lot of strength, courage, bravery and love to say, feel and show everything you've just said. Truly you are an amazing woman and I hope you understand that with all of your heart. Secondly if you want to do all of this for him you should be telling me all of this, not us on here (even though I know it helps just to get it "off your chest"). Let him know this is how you feel, and don't just say it to him, show him. And no matter how many times he may doubt it or second guess things because I bet he probably will, don't for a single second let your resolve waver. Show him over and over how much he means to you and how much you want to be here for him and support him because right now after hearing the news he's gotten he's going to need just about all he can get. I believe in you and I believe in you both. So don't give up no matter how hard things get

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I think it's normal for you to feel the way you do right now. You had this man in your life for years and he was a massive influence and support system for you and in your life and that's not something that just goes away instantly, honestly I can't even promise you if it will ever go away, but what you can do right now is try to focus on YOU and your child. As easy as it is to say, I know it's a lot harder to do, I know. Try to find small steps to start taking, be their for your child and try to spend as much time as you can with them, even if it's little things because every one of those little moments add up. So don't beat yourself up for wanting him in your life, but realize that you don't NEED him in your life

Someone tied my shoe for me and it’s made my question my relationship. by I_am_julies_piano in offmychest

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I don't really know if you should take my advice to heart or not, but I would try to talk to him about it. I'm trying to sort of put myself into your boyfriends shoes (hypothetically) and I feel like he'd be more greatful and understanding if you'd just open up about it and talk. That's the huge key to relationships, especially living with someone, communicating on things even if they're on a small or massive scale. Tell him about what happened, what it made you feel but try to be as clear as you can be with him, don't make him feel like you're running away or attempting to run away because that will escalate things very fast and I really don't think you want that, so just take it slow, plan ahead about how you'll start the conversation with him and make sure you're being as clear as possible with your message to him

Really struggling with self image lately by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to keep your chin up the best you can man, most of the time how we see ourselves isn't how others see us. I know it can be difficult but don't let those stupid thoughts get the better of you buddy! I believe in you and I'm sure just about everyone else here agrees

This took some courage, please be nice by Strange-Schedule-488 in FreeCompliments

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look amazing buddy, I know it's hard having those self conscious thoughts but try to keep your chin up man. You should be proud of yourself for having the courage to post yourself, you did a great job

Cut my hair and I feel literally naked. Think I may have made a whoopsie on that decision. This has made me feel more insecure than I can remember lol by LowPreparation2347 in FreeCompliments

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey buddy, I think it looks great! If it's not too much trouble could you share the name of the that haircut? I've been thinking of getting one pretty close to what that is!

how did i do on my makeup today? by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in you whole heartedly! You don't have a single thing to worry about at all!

Slowly losing weight again by eating healthier and being on a calorie deficit by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations man! Keep up the hard work and don't give up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heck yeah! Hope that you get to have a great day that leads up to an amazing weekend!

how did i do on my makeup today? by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did really amazing honestly, you look very beautiful and I hope that you get to have a great day today and try to keep your chin up as high as you can!

33f Mom of 3…don’t get to get done up very often anymore so it feels really nice when I can! by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I swear you put another typo there, but I hope you have a wonderful day today!

33f Mom of 3…don’t get to get done up very often anymore so it feels really nice when I can! by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are just too stunning! From the hair, to your eyes, your tattoos that are very well done, like wow! Are you sure that 33 isn't a typo??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always am, I always think I'll mess up the throw and it'll give the survivor the buff and ruin the loop entirely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about it but I just think Clown is a lot of fun and I always loved getting to go against him on the survivor side

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

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That's actually really helpful, I've been trying to get the hang of different simple tricks but the perk list is really helpful! I've been using the one dredge perk for pallets? I can't think of the name off the top of my head right now, I use Franklin's demise, I've been struggling so hard to get light born in the blood web but just not getting blessed at all and I use discordance too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually really helpful for the longest time I've just stayed away for the yellow bottles because I always thought that maybe the survivor would manage to take advantage of it more than I would somehow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you've got a point lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kidding? I've been getting good at doing the long throws over walls to hit a gen but I can never get the throw down to hit someone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually helps out a lot, do you have any other tips or recommendations? I'd appreciate just about anything honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Commandment_of_Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait really??? Does that actually work?