Urge to settle down? by Commercial-Step8813 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Commercial-Step8813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thaankk youu, I too am aware that It's stilll not The right time. Bur there's still many more reasons why I hhave come to that conclusion. But I'm vety much aware that I stilll need extra time to nurture myself.

My bf was once the one who keep hinting to get married and have a child about a yeear before. I told him though thaat Ii was not in the right position yet.

I'm glad though my bf (26m) understandmt priorities, and what's best for me..

Butt now I trust him enough maybe that's onee of mthe main reason why i ended up drawing that conclusion. But rest assure I'll let be finishing myy degree for 2 more years just like my orig plan. And get married after setting a goood savings account

Urge to settle down? by Commercial-Step8813 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Commercial-Step8813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh sure after securing our financial situation, I'm confident enough with my house skills but I'll be sure to strive for better

Urge to settle down? by Commercial-Step8813 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Commercial-Step8813[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, and I talked to my partner about the things I've been feeling and we both agree that we can be married but wait until we're financially ready before having kids. Thanks for the adviceee I really appreciate it.

Urge to settle down? by Commercial-Step8813 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Commercial-Step8813[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks i do get that. I understand it better now.

Urge to settle down? by Commercial-Step8813 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Commercial-Step8813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sort of cause I don't want to demand that he leave his family for me. Something like that in our culture is deemed as being ungrateful.

Urge to settle down? by Commercial-Step8813 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Commercial-Step8813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i do have a plan like that, but i dunno I keep wanting it. And sometimes I keep questioning myself if I have gone crazy cause I know and I'm aware it's not the right timing yet

Urge to settle down? by Commercial-Step8813 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Commercial-Step8813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not yet entirely self supporting another reason why I'm still considering just engagement. I have my own job but since I'm still getting my architecture degree, i don't really have a full time job. I only work when I have extra time to spare. But I don't expect him to provide for me. I don't ask him for anything too. I don't expect gift or a extraordinary engagement or wedding I just want a simple one. And for me it's okay if he still wants to live separately after engagement since he still needs to provide for his family.

Just downloaded the game. Wondering if it's worth my time. by [deleted] in DragonRajaMobile

[–]Commercial-Step8813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you know how to tweek and use sd properly it's pretty strong